Hi ladies
So i live in a western country and went on a 1st date with this guy from a non-western country
During the conversation, i asked him about his relationship with his sister, and then he made this comment that women in his country are "spoiled", "expect to be taken care of", "soft", "didnt know what real life was" and went on to say that western women were not like that and believed in "equality" (with a slight disdain)
I was quite upset but didnt show it for safety reasons.
Was this a neg ? How can I guy be so confident to insult other women in a first date with a...woman ?
LOLOLOL! This guy has obviously been heavy duty rejected by all the 'soft and spoiled' women in his culture. Now he's hoping that 'Stupid Western LibFem' women will have much lower expectations, and NOT be expected to be pampered and cared for. In fact, these 'equality obsessed western libfems' can be relied on to pamper and spoil HIM as he obviously deserves.
This man sounds like he hates women. Steer clear of him. He’s confident to say these things probably because he’s never been called out on it, and/or doesn’t care.
Lots of pickmeishas don’t like women either and would respond along the lines of, ‘Oh absolutely, I hear you. Women be bitches, but I’m not like them’. He’s probably looking for a woman like that. And he will find one. And they will live unhappily ever after.
You did the right thing. It’s never safe to anger a man on a date, but I’m sorry you had to sit through that. Hope you never encounter him again.
I love that a lot of men are so dumb that they try to prime your butt for the abuse you will be getting right away so you can get out of there. I hate that Pickme's internalize this and then jump though hoops to please these scrotes though. I would have said: "No point in dating unless I am spoiled, taken care of and soft.. so what?" On this episode of Women Can't Win: Let's be helpless and "not know what real life is", while at the same time be resented for paying our own bills.
YES. He's telling you that he hates when women are happy, comfortable and being taken care of and has no intentions of offering any of those things to you (or any woman unfortunate enough to get involved with him). He can be so confident about insulting other women on a first date with a woman because he hates women. At least he showed his cards right up front. Block and go.
Where he is from, he is a loser. And he expects Western libfem women to be his (perhaps literal) punching bag.
Block and delete his ass.
Yes, it was a neg.
So he doesn't like the women from his country because he thinks they are spoiled but also seem to resent women from western countries because of "equality"? Sheesh.
This wasn't a neg, he outright told on himself.
He hates women and the idea of a woman not being a beaten down workhorse fills him with resentment and rage.
He's attempting to bargain you down with some good ol'fashioned triangulation.
Comical.
It's block o'clock
It sounds to me like he was hoping you'd respond with "O not me! I'm not like those other girls! I'm not spoiled. I don't expect to be taken care of! See, here I am right now paying for the bill. Pick me!". Your gut instinct was spot on.
I've traveled all over the world solo before for two years, including to India and Nepal and this is BS. Women in Iran or India can be just as big of pickmes and sleep around as anywhere else it's just less noticed on the surface due to what I call the s*x police lol aka police officers in some of those places will literally beat a dude with a wooden stick of they so much as see a couple kissing in public to break up the kiss. They secretly wish it was them since the number of jobless bums aka overpopulation of males with nothing better to do but form gangs and stalk and catcall women in the streets and there's not enough women to go around for all these thirst dudes and a lot of them die virgins in India still. Some old fat pot bellied Indian men ganged up on me while I was getting tea at one of their tea stands and shoved their smartphones in my face with live p*rn on it with white women on video. I threw my hot tea at them and sped off on my motorbike 🏍 😂 Trust me these potbellied losers can only dream of touching a foreign woman! They don't think we're easier than local women and some even know local women won't even scream if a man grabs them out in public or tries to r*pe them which is why they were afraid to approach me and they usually steer clear of western women. Women in a lot of those countries are trained to be the ultimate pickme and worship sausage from birth to death unlike Americans or other western women. A lot of these dudes know they're beneath us and one even called himself my slave. Yeah they might call us wh*re in the same breath but I'd rather be thought of us a free agent than trained from birth to think men are better than women and submit to a loser who's just going to use me the whole marriage anyways. They still pay dowry in those countries too which Is a joke..the brides family pays the groom to marry her off and women are seen as burdens over there which is as* backwards 😂
all scrotes need to be forced to watch the goriest birth videos possible. for hours. then, and only then, allow them to make comments about the weakness and softness of women. little f*ckers.
So he hates women who have to be provided for due to being housebound slaves, but also hates women who provide for themselves without a man🤔 can't spell mental illness without 'men'
Because men are clueless. You would think they would try harder to win a woman over by speaking highly of them. Nope.
Run away!