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I feel like a lot of women don't fully believe FDS when they're told that most men hate their wives and girlfriends. They need to hear it from a man. I've had a lot of female cousins and friends ridicule me for giving FDS advice but lap it up when men give the exact same advice. Women take FDS advice seriously when it comes from men.
Edit: I think women don't believe this because they project their own morality, empathy and feelings onto men. Most women deeply love their partners despite mistreatment from them. So they can't begin to fathom that their partners really start hating them. When you tell them it's seems absurd because they can't see it from the man's perspective.
Here is a twitter thread that's currently trending of most men admitting how much they hate their girlfriends:
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7yXmFT/
Here is another man who explains how your male partner will grow to hate and resent you if you stay with him when he is disrespecting you and he has pulled back on any effort/consistency in the relationship. Newsflash it's because he doesn't like you anymore! Leave!
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7yWWLJ/
The only reason he is staying is because he's scared to be alone and would rather be with a woman he has grown to hate and resent rather than being alone.
Another man telling women to becareful because men will hate you but stay in the relationship just to have a body to £uck: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7yxutB/
All these videos from men telling us what FDS has always been telling us incredibly insightful for women who are newer to this platform. This is why FDS tells women to leave as soon as a man starts pulling back their effort. Leave at the first sign of inconsistency. Leave at the first sign of disrespect. So many women are in relationships or married to men who hate them. Boy math is being mad when you have a girlfriend and being mad when she leave and being mad when you're single because women won't date you. Urghh.
This whole fucking trend is so scary. Hundreds of thousands of men liking and agreeing with posts saying that they love to see their gf suffer and don't see her as human. Where's this "male loneliness epidemic" again? Time and time again scrotes prove themselves to be insufferable pieces of shit, so is it any surprise that an increasing amount of women choose to avoid them altogether? Men are disgusting, I hate them so much.
Here's the original thread if someone's interested: https://twitter.com/sk1tguru/status/1708897294207082668?t=NxMiYTGBiWbvVZk3ykmSAw&s=19
These same men will "simp" for their wives and gfs in public, saying how much they love them- but it's all part of their image. So many of them really do hate their significant others, and they'll say that in private to their "bros". One of the reasons my divorce was so difficult is because loads of people came out of the woodwork in support of my ex, saying he was not only a wonderful father, but a doting husband. He put on such a good show. It really made it look like I was just a vindictive ex out to "divorce rape" him. What they didn't see was the infidelity, financial abuse, physical abuse, substance abuse, and flat-out insanity.
Thank you for this.
I, too, have been looked at weirdly or seen as weird because I’m supposedly a “man hater” for pointing out this very real truth about men.
More women need to hear this but a lot of them are in denial or are completely unaware of men that think this way about us.
I like that men are exposing themselves by liking, sharing and commenting on these threads. The more we know who hates us, the faster we can run away from them.
Lastly, the last part of boy math is bonkers but so real 😂😂😂
Another take - the lack of effort and inconsistency is a tactic to make you end the relationship so he doesn't have to be the bad guy. He then gets to tell everyone else "she left me / she broke up the family".
It's sad to think about the women who only take FDS advice when it comes from the mouths of men... It's like they are so close to finally outgrowing their pickmeism, but are still held back by their internalized misogyny. Truly tragic. We need the narrative of women supporting women and decentering men to become more mainstream.
Thank you for this reminder.
Dealt with some 'poor me soft boiz' lately and realllly appreciate this reminder as it's STILL easy for my empathy to get swayed. I can control my actions at least, and walk away, but despite my best efforts my emotions still get a little hooked into. Not worth it.