Sigh. I don't like to judge other people for their sexual decisions as long as they aren't hurting any one. But after FDS, I keep thinking more and more about how cringey it is that so many men ask for 3 ways. And most of them need it to be with another woman because they're too insecure if it were another man. But even if they're okay with another guy joining, I worry. I would never date someone who wants a 3 way. If I'm not enough for him, then I don't want him. Plus most of these LVM can't make one woman cum, now he wants to disappoint two women instead of one? That shit is goofy.
But damn. She could do sooooooo much better. I feel bad for her because it's more than likely she's a pick me and I'm sure there are lots of men who would be happy to stay monogamous with her.
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"I love my life and I have an amazing partner in life." Yet it's still not enough and he needs another woman involved... sigh.
Maybe I'm wrong and she suggested it or wanted it, I know that can happen. I just think it's more frequent that women feel pressured into being pick mes and letting their scrote partner have more than one partner just to be a "cool girl", meanwhile she has so many more options than him.
He’s lucky to have her, she’s gorgeous. He should get on his knees every morning to thank the universe she’s with him. But of course not…
When my ex told me he wanted a threesome I said “great when is your bff Nick available?” He never brought it up again. People who think they can treat another person like a sex toy—and still be discriminatory in the process (iTs jUsT oUr pReFeREnCe)—are so insulting and obnoxious. Couples like this deserve each other tbh.
I just ask, "Why would you want to disappoint 2 women?" Then I say I'm down for one with a hot guy. That shuts them up.
Tinder truly is full of terrible men 9/10 times or more.
I definitely judge what people do in the bedroom. Threesomes are definitely harmful and I will judge most people who willingly engage in them (not women who were coerced into doing it). Things people do in the bedroom can say a lot about a person. Unless it's a woman who was being coerced into doing something, sexually assaulted, or r@ped. Otherwise, if it's an active choice, then I don’t care. I kinkshame. 100%
Someone save her. Good lord.
Man pressures woman into seeking a 3some. If she's bi-curious, she's better off leaving him and dating women.
God how embarrassing. The evil part of me would love to find out who he is and send this to his whole family at lunar new year.
Because it's the males fantasy that he pushes the female into.
I love judging people for their sexual decisions. What am I supposed to judge people on if not their decisions and actions? Their skin color? Nah. I dont think wanting a three-way is the worst thing in the world, but it definitely means that he doesnt value her, and he doesnt satisfy her either. But then, I'm very judgemental.
Tinder is hookup Meatmarket. These profiles dont surprise me and the best Action is to ignore them, you cannot save people from themselves
Yes, men are whining about threesomes constantly, however, she can be asking too as a Pickme while having you believe she is under pressure.
i’ve seen a lot of that when i www on tinder and i feel like it’s a way to cheat but not really cheating.
How do we know she isn't the one after the threesome? We are making assumptions here based on a tinder listing that it is the man who talked her into it ( although this def happens, I agree )
I started reading this thread and the nasty comments about this man's appearance made me feel sad, so I stopped reading.