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Since I put my foot down and decided "no more," exes have been popping up left and right trying to reconnect. It's not like I advertised it - I just decided I was done and completely removed my energtic investment into ALL men. I'm not on social media either, so it's not like I have guys following me who are picking up on my day to day cues.
Well, that was a month ago and it has been WILD. Everyone from ex boyfriends Ive had no contact with for 15 years, to guys at work, to my shithead brother are freaking the fuck out.
A friend warned me this would happen. "They can sense that you've cut off your energetic supply and they can no longer siphon from you." I'm not sure about this, but it does strike me as very interesting that they're suddenly all trying to reconnect and / or escalating now that I've made this major shift.
The latest one was my longtime on again / off again ex (a serious relationship with an extremely abusive hot and cold man), who reached out with an email asking to reconnect after more than a year of no contact. He signed it "with love." LMAO. Love? This man ghosted me after my mother died.
I deleted his email. Bye.
They can all rot in their own choices.
This is all normal behavior of scrotes, unfortunately. They can absolutely tell when a woman has had enough of them and has decided to center herself instead of them, and it is not a pretty sight to behold on their end lol. This is also why they hate to see a single woman thriving without them, and why they especially hate women who don't go out of her way to socialize with them when they go out in public.
I wonder if the holiday season is getting these scrotes trawling through their black books looking for a dopamine hit.. I’m so proud of you for hitting delete on that email. That ghosting MF doesn’t deserve a comma. Silence IS a response. And so so sorry you lost your mom.
It’s “cuffing season” and I swear men have a radar for true unavailability. What’s that? Is that a firm boundary I sense? Being drawn by a woman? HULK SMASH! Ten seconds later… owww! Wah wah wah, stupid boundary is tooooo harddd!😂
I’m so sorry about your mom, they can rot in hell! 💔
You know in Mariokart when you’re winning and suddenly all the other racers throw everything they’ve got at you to slow you down? I feel like people do that IRL when a woman is succeeding at life. It’s like they feel a disturbance in the force and immediately set out to ruin you.
(Also it’s “cuffing season” when desperate men grab at any woman before the holidays).
So strange. I wonder if the old exes have been tossed aside by their women who finally released they’re trash.
I’ve stopped interacting with men, but none have come out of the woodwork. But for at least 20 years, if I’d start liking a new guy and maybe start thinking of having sex with him, one of my exes would have his dickdar go off from thousands of miles away, and he’d contact me. So for me, it’s like they have this 7th sense that I call “dickdar” where they know there’s another dick in my proximity. And I don’t know how they know when I don’t post such stuff on social media, they’re blocked on my phone, and we don’t even live in the same state. For me, when it rains, it pours with men. But when I disengage, nothing happens, and I’m glad.
It's that holidays blues!!1!1!!!
Expect more of them lol!
It's literally hell on earth!
I just had an ex-manager contact me as we speak lmfao!
Girl the same thing happened in my mailbox a month ago........ and he signed his email that way. What a joke. The complete audacity. He also ghosted me.
Dickdar. Omg. 😳😩
And lol @ him contacting you via email🥴! The nerve!
Stay strong there is a reason it didn't work out.