Aahhh these "don't know yet+ want someday" scrotes seem to exist in abundance.And looks like men hit the wall of intelligence really hard as they approach mid 30s because all the examples above 35 make me lose my appetite altogether.
Only big issues I saw were "don't know yet" constantly and then "drama vaccinated". Sir you are probably the source of that drama. I think that at some point in your 30s you have to not only know yourself, but what you want. Your 20s are for finding that out. I had no idea what I wanted in my 20s. In my 30s I've really grown as a person and I'm able to compile a list of things I am looking for in a man. You either hit the majority of the checklist, or you don't. I also have some "preferences" I guess, but they are not dealbreakers. The dealbreakers are quite literal. I will not make the "deal" if they are not met. Set your boundaries, ladies.
Another thing - I will say that some men don't seem to know what they want until they meet a specific woman and they suddenly seem to have an epiphany, like "holy shit". I won't say it's ideal but it happens. My brother was like that and he just married her two weeks ago. Both are in their early 30s. I think he'd walk on glass for her.
This. My friend's ex married the next girl after 6 months, while he had refused to get his act together and move the relationship forward with my friend for 4 years. He realized no one else would deal with his BS for as long as she had, so he locked the next one down as soon as he could. My ex moved in with his new woman super quickly as well, after I had to almost drag him out of his father's house when we were together. I was also his forever girlfriend so I'm sure he'll be putting a ring on her soon just to prove to everyone that he was never the problem and that I just hadn't been "worthy" enough. Once I realized most men marry for convenience and not love, so many stories around me suddenly made sense.
'Bedroom musician': I'll make you listen to my terrible guitar playing like a teenager at a house party and you need to pump up my rock star ego at all times and not tell me how fucking lame it and I actually are.
That's it. No point commenting on the rest, the 'don't know/want someday' 'dog dad' cliches are ten a penny at this point and the only sensible thing to do is ignore them. And dating apps in general, imo.
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Aahhh these "don't know yet+ want someday" scrotes seem to exist in abundance. And looks like men hit the wall of intelligence really hard as they approach mid 30s because all the examples above 35 make me lose my appetite altogether.
Drama vaccinated Men are so catty lmao he needs to shut his bitch ass up
Looking for a mom for my dog??? What a bitch honestly. They all going to hell 🤢
Only big issues I saw were "don't know yet" constantly and then "drama vaccinated". Sir you are probably the source of that drama. I think that at some point in your 30s you have to not only know yourself, but what you want. Your 20s are for finding that out. I had no idea what I wanted in my 20s. In my 30s I've really grown as a person and I'm able to compile a list of things I am looking for in a man. You either hit the majority of the checklist, or you don't. I also have some "preferences" I guess, but they are not dealbreakers. The dealbreakers are quite literal. I will not make the "deal" if they are not met. Set your boundaries, ladies.
Another thing - I will say that some men don't seem to know what they want until they meet a specific woman and they suddenly seem to have an epiphany, like "holy shit". I won't say it's ideal but it happens. My brother was like that and he just married her two weeks ago. Both are in their early 30s. I think he'd walk on glass for her.
'Bedroom musician': I'll make you listen to my terrible guitar playing like a teenager at a house party and you need to pump up my rock star ego at all times and not tell me how fucking lame it and I actually are.
That's it. No point commenting on the rest, the 'don't know/want someday' 'dog dad' cliches are ten a penny at this point and the only sensible thing to do is ignore them. And dating apps in general, imo.