"tHiS sEeMs UnFaiR??????????????"
LOL
In case you ladies needed a reminder that scrote audacity and stupidity is at an all time high- PROTECT YOURSELVES from scrotes who want all the benefits of marriage without you having been provided with the (financial) security of it.
So in other words he wants her money and he wants to use her for free labor but this scrote is complaining that this woman isn't dumb. She gotta leave his ass ASAP. I'd like to see his answer if the woman in question proposed the same offer but in reverse, then it wouldn't seem so fair, would it? He is the epitome of a gold-digging bitch.
I lost a very good friend over this exact argument. She lived and paid half of her boyfriend’s mortgage, half (or more) of their various fixer-upper / remodeling projects plus half of bills, groceries, even fucking dates. He owned the house and made more money than her.
We went out as a group and he bought the group 2 rounds of shots but she embarrassingly negotiated half the cost of a slice of pizza with him for dinner.
He didn’t claim 1 single cent of her contribution to the mortgage as income on his taxes like he should have done. It’s literally rental income.
He got, not only the equity of the existing house, the remodeling increased equity, and no tax obligation for her contribution to money in his pocket.
I told her that the increase in equity that he expected every year, that should be a reduction in “”her half”” of the mortgage and he, as the landlord, should cover 💯 of ALL remodeling and decor expenses.
She actually picked out a house but backed away from buying it herself because her boyfriend wanted to spend a few more years building equity in HIS house….all the while didn’t mention marriage or anything firm. To his view it was just the girl he lived with while he grew his nest egg 🤯
She couldn’t / didn’t want to see it. She said I made her uncomfortable and I didn’t back down. When this blows up in her face 10 years from now (and probably after the creation of a few kids), my life, energy, and sanity will not be affected because she isn’t my friend anymore. Be stupid on your time.
Imagine paying for a boyfriend's mortgage. lolololol
Sometimes I like imagining myself as these men and seeing if my partner would behave the way theirs do so easily. God being a man is truly life on easy mode - it's surreal.
I honestly struggle to imagine a woman who is smart, serious and money savvy enough to own her own condo at a (presumably) young age... and dumb enough to even consider an insane arrangement like this at the same time. I mean? How is him even thinking about (let alone having the audacity to mention) this not enough to to make her laugh in his face and block and delete?
Pickmes are fucking crazy. Seriously. No sex with a scrote can possibly be good enough to make you throw your brain, dignity and future out of the window like this.
If he wants to live together so badly and two places are impractical, why doesn't he sell his house and pay her mortgage without expecting to be put on the deed? Bad idea?
'what should WE do'? Errr....the fact that this post even exists makes it abundantly clear that there is no 'we'. A far more pertinent question would be, what should SHE do? And that's easy: boot your worthless, gold-digging arse to the kerb, that's what she should do.
In other words, he wants her to leave the home she paid for to come make his life easier, but doesn’t take her seriously enough as a partner to put her name on his house, because he is either hoping he can still do better or (probably accurately) fearing she’ll ditch him.
Lol he wants to mooch off her. It looks like men forgot their place to be a defender and provider. Yet they want women to remember their place and cook and clean for these losers.
Read the comments. Too many, "What's wrong with splitting the costs with a significant other?"
I've had some pick me times in my life, but NEVER around money. If a man proposed this kind of muling situation where I'd be giving him access to my body, energy, money, and making me pay rent, I'd have joined a convent before I'd ever settle for that type of arrangement. It's reverse prostitution where a woman pays for dick. And he can throw her out onto her ear with nothing, nowhere to live, and no savings because she sank it all into his house that he plans to move a new chick into after she's helped him pay off this house. And he'll have an extra $900/month to take out his side chicks. F that. If a man doesn't want to invest in you, he doesn't love you.
The only way she should possibly consider selling her condo is if she marries him, pockets all her sale proceeds, and gets her name added to his house deed as co-owners. But obviously this man is a scrote so she’s better off keeping the condo and ditching the man.
If I were her, I'd rent out my condo so I can keep the place (just in case it doesn't work out) and I would tell him that I would only move in under the condition that I was not expected to pay a single, solitary dime towards his mortgage. He bought the house on his own, he would be the only one benefitting in its sale, I'm not contributing to his future potential wealth. I would pay half the utilities since obviously I'd be using them but I wouldn't pay a dime in rent. If he didn't like that, bye. I don't understand why he needs her to pay rent so badly if he was able to afford the home before he met her. To me, I'd feel like he was trying to make money off of me and that wouldn't sit right with me at all.
The fact he thinks that’s “fair” is absolutely unhinged. I hope she breaks up with him and doesn’t ruin her life like that. Wtf!!!
Ew I hope she dumps him!