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Chelsea Handler has ruffled some feathers with her response to a pickme podcaster and the manosphere are loud once more making video's about women hitting the wall and regret it. It's funny because no body would share video's about the dominating regret women feel when they married early and are stuck with a man who can't even be bothered to be a good father, Or feel scorned for being part of the first wives club or replaced when they get sick.
Don't give a crap about what the Neckbeards and their pickme allies tell you. You are much better off with a lot of money raising a child by yourself in a beautiful house and accomplishments, your pets and endless resources you generated for yourself than be stuck with men, in a shitty household where he doesn't clean up after himself being his underappreciated free housemaid and neglected wife, It doesn't matter if you check all the boxes If men want to replace you they will so you are always better off choosing for yourself and a life you always wanted.
The vast majority of the women on their deathbed are all wives or mothers and all of them wished they chose for themselves before they checked out, so that pretty much debunks everything and make you see through the bs of the glorification about choosing Nice guys is going to make you happy.
The very idea of women "hitting the wall" at a certain age is based on their observation that women in terrible marriages (which is most of them) end up burnt out, overwhelmed, and with no time and money to take care of themselves. Compare a 35 year old married single mother with three children and a manchild husband to take care of to a 35 year old single woman who prioritizes herself. The single woman will be better rested, eat better, have better skin and better overall health. But since they literally refuse to see single women as people, they just base their opinions on the women they've already sucked the life out of.
At 64 y.o., I 'hit the wall' a long time ago so can speak to this from the other side and looking back. When my last relationship ended 15 years ago, I decided that I wasn't going to date again but was just going to concentrate on building the best life for myself that I could. (I'd already had an earlier period of 5 years when I just concentrated on staying single, levelling up and achieving a lot of the things that I wanted to achieve at that stage of my life. My worst mistake was deciding that, once I'd done all that levelling up, it would be a good idea to share that good life with a partner again!) Those 20 years that I've spent overall as a single and non-dating woman have been the best years of my life. I've never met anyone I would change places with! Just do you ladies - and work on making it the best version of yourself that you can be. Build the best life for yourself that you possibly can. If a HVM that only adds to your life and doesn't wreck your peace comes along, that's a bonus. If not, you've had a great life!
There is no wall for women. Stat.
It's better to cry in a BMW than on a bike, as they say. And Chelsea Handler isn't crying at all.
There was a post here a while ago. The OP said she has never met a married woman whose life she envies, and that is her response anytime someone asks her why she hasn't found anyone.