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Reflect on the last few guys you either subtly or Obviously rejected. Mine were:
Old McOldman in a bar (happened 5 times this month).
Bald spot, bold moves. Had already been rejected by other women - I also noticed that he seemed happy to spread about his attention amongst multiple women on a night out.
Dance monkey. Didn't even speak to me but seemed to think I was keen when dancing in a group. He wasn't anything special, so why did he think I would pick him without any effort on his part?
Sir spits a lot. I don't like feeling spittle on my face when a guy talks to me.
Over his head. A guy who totally missed my joke, and had dead chat, yet seemed to want to meet again despite leaving with another woman.
Mr. Laughs too loud. My joke wasn't that funny, and no, I won't tell you where I live and no, you can't walk with me in the dark alone when we just met.
Insulting sultan. No, that insult wasn't banter, and too much of what you're saying can't be true.
Blows his own horn. Incessantly talking about yourself and your talents feels like I am some female AI chatbot.
Gossip Gary. No, you don't get to spread rumours about me for your own gain to ward off other men. You're too stupid to think that the best way to win me is not by default, but by vaulting others by showcasing yourself to your best.
Androgynous Andy. Man? Woman? Not worth the risk.
A comprehensive, but not exhaustive list of guys I had the misfortune of meeting this year:
1. Mr. WYD?, 50/50, and find your own way home. He hit me up this week, and got mad when I told him I wasn’t available to hangout with him in Gotham City at night. As I move forward towards 2024, I will be leaving him in 2023.
2. Mr. I’m not like other guys. But he IS like other guys lol he’s the most basic bitch scrote I’ve ever met who tried to get me into a situationship. He was like Wonder Bread, (kind of like Bread Song, from Strong Girl Nam Soo) all bland, dense, and nothing unique about him. He was bad at flirting, and hated to be corrected.
3. Mr. Pedophile. When Maya Angelou told women to believe a man the first time he tells you something about himself, I took her up on that advice and ran with it. Greatest advice ever!
4.Mr. I’m not looking for a relationship, but can I waste your time? Only wasted 6 months of my life before I understood and left.
So on average, factoring in my current age (I'm in my 30's), I guess I met a new guy every 3 months without using OLD...not bad 🤷🏻♀️. I guess women don't really hit the wall after all.
I reject men who don't approach me in a kind way. When they cut to the chase, grin at me with their snaggle teeth stained yellow due to smoking I just give these losers a blank stare until they get the memo to piss off.
Men who place their phone in my face are immediately rejected.
Men who slip into my fb dm wanting to talk and can't think of a topic to talk about.
Enter my personal space.
Who do simple things for me and occasionally do their best but expect me to do my best all the time.
When he gives a big kid vibe.
talk too much about how beautiful I am, and how he can see us together.
Asking my parents If he can date me like I'm some little girl.
Men who talk to me but ignore my friend who is also there completely.
Bitching about the role God has made for men and women. Because chances are high that he doens't fulfill the responsibility God has placed for men, such as defend and provide for everything.
Bitching about 50/50 because times are tough.
The Video gamer, even an occasional game is a turn off.
Baby daddy
ex inmate
Addictions.
Autism/Bipolar.
Bad smell masked with deoderant.
The one's I don't reject are :
Men who don't invade my personal space.
You only have to talk to them once and they stop with what they are doing.
Men who say Hello and leave it at that.
Men who are dressed well and look like they shower at least once a day with soap.
Stylish hairstyle.
Men who smile with their mouth closed, ( Don't grin at me like you are the joker please)
Behave like an old fashioned Gentleman.
A Man who seems to be an old soul who likes classic things and hobbies like I do.
The adventurous man, and I don't mean sex, I mean a man who has traveled alot.
A Free spirit.
Disciplined who sees his future as his own responsibility and doesn't bitch about wanting to build with a woman.
Has no problem with no being the head of the house just because he is a man. If the woman earns more she is the head of the house.
Doesn't display jealousy of other ppls accomplishments.
No preaching about the bible.
Sees submission as slavery and respect women enough not to make them do that.
Has a good father who has been very good to his mother.
Mentally healthy/physically healthy.
Respect is the most dominant behavior he displays.
Can cook very well, and sees shores as a basic skill.
Never mansplains.
Makes his mistakes undone.
Doesn't give me grief because his previous partner did this and that to him.
Very low body count.
Prioritize what he can offer, what he wants comes second place.
Likes or want to learn Chess.
Prefers out door activities instead being inside all day glued to a screen.
My presence is more than enough, he doesn't expect me to entertain him or think of things to do.
Always plans ahead, when it's xmas/Halloween ect he asks before hand what I want to do instead asking that question when the special day is tomorrow.
When it's my birthday/valentine's/xmas day and he asks me on that day " What do you want to do?" and there is no presents that I always wanted, with a nice dinner on the table to make up for the lack of planning.
I will say " I want you to get out and don't ever show your face again"
Because if he wanted to he would, the most important days for me are only 3 occasions, And if you can't even be attentive and spoil me for 3 times a year then I got nothing else to say to you.
Many scrotes might think I ask too much but they would never date a woman who is just as fat and ugly, ambitionless and lazy/useless like they are. They would shame any woman who is just like them.
Also the list is only to avoid instant rejection, it doesn't save men from rejection later on, he is on life time probation, As soon as the mask slips it's goodbye.
Your reward for being good to me previously is not forgiveness, or a second chance. The only reward you get for being good to me is that you are allowed to stay longer.
I don't care if we are together for years, hurt my feelings and you can go.
A cab driver proposed if we can be 'friends' when i complimented his taste on the interiors? wtf do they think if a girl says something nice we want to fuck them 🤡🤡🤡
Fake PhD. Works at a home where I volunteer. Claims on his tinder profile to be a PhD (he’s not). Always tries to one-up me intellectually, fails miserably, and just makes it unpleasant for me to interact with him.
Dr. House. Older gentleman about 20 years my senior, has a limp. Met him years ago at uni. Sends me emails every few months still trying to take me out on a date. Probably looking for a nurse and a purse.
Count of Monte Cristo. Created a fake email and larped as the Count of Monte Cristo. Literally 😄 At first, I was intrigued, but then I realized who it was. Long story short, another older man looking for somebody to listen to his stories.
Mr. Clown Pants.
baldy-pushing-50 stopped me as i was walking through my neighborhood, told me nearly his entire life story, showed me his gun and told me he was Christian. mmkaybye.
Lovebombing, overweight, bald, serial cheater, possessive. Finally rejected when I saw his instagram following list with loads of fetish accounts. Officially rejected over the phone, went on to quietly reject him as a friend.
Middle aged man at work. Didn't have his facts straight about whether he had a wife of a girlfriend, which is how I clocked what his aim was. Quietly rejected.
Man significantly older than me at work. Had previously been drinking buddies. Asked me out one too many times. He still phones but I blank him.
Middle aged man going through a divorce, again at work. Was erratic enough we had to ban him off the premises.
Ongoing rejection of very charming and attractive man my age. I found out there was another woman. He was in a (LV) friendship group I was part of and sort of dragged them into it. Rejected the whole group.