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Honestly it has changed my dating life for the best ! thank you FDS !
Example: was seeing this guy for a brief period of time, starting to feel he was being a bit shifty, then he disappears on me for almost a week and comes back with the excuse "sorry I didnt see your last message"
blocked and deleted ! so satisfying
the old me would have been "maybe he is telling the truth, maybe I should give him a chance" I am ashamed of how stupid I used to be !!
Ladies, every time your guts raises alarm bells and you feel "maybe I should give him a chance" just dont ! If you feel you dont know where you stand, then it's over, next
Giving the benefit of the doubt is an early step on the path to women getting preyed on. Period. Be a confident, self-loving diva with high standards who no abusive scrote would ever want to deal with. 🫶
Blocking and deleting becomes so cathartic. It doesn’t just extend to dating either, I have blocked anyone I deem toxic and emotionally draining. Life is far too short to waste on suffering in horrible relationships, be it dating, family, or friends. We are not martyrs. I see the act of blocking as curating a peaceful and tranquil life.
Yaaaas!! This reminds me of a situation I had yesterday on tinder.
Random man, who in the first 2 messages after matching asked "if there was any room for me over there, your city isn't far" when I told him I was winding down for the night.
I was like, did you seriously just invite yourself over to a stranger's house?
He was then like obviously you don't understand sarcasm.
In the past, his response might have made me feel stupid for reacting that way, but not this time. I responded with no, that wasn't sarcasm, you fucking creep. Made sure he saw it and unmatched immediately.
Not only is it freeing, it keeps you safer, both mentally and physically.
I just found a voicemail in my “blocked” folder from 2019 from a guy I had spoken with briefly. He was too intense so quickly and kept saying how “people are so inconsiderate and ghosting is so common. Our throwaway culture is so sad” trying to preemptively guilt trip me before I blocked him. I didn’t even bother to listen to it. forgot that fool even existed til I saw the 3 year old voicemail while cleaning out the phone