Like another post here said- hinge is utter trash , and I just deleted it .
Went out one time with a Scrote who BEFORE the date seemingly wanted to know about me: Complimented me on my hobby, my job , even how I was taking care of my mother . We had a couple discussions about vacations , family, music ... So far so good.
The date! This is when everything and I mean everything changed. Stared at me like he wanted to devour me. Moved super close to me . Wouldn't stop staring. Wouldn't engage in ANY conversation . It was awkward AF . Because HE made it so.
On another note, I was completely unattracted. He had a massive bald spot that was not evident in his pictures.
Cut it short . He walked me to my car and was creepily walking behind to check out my ass.
Here's the amusing part! He sent the rejection text before I got a chance to! He said he finds me very attractive and wants a physical relationship with me, but can't offer more.
Gee thanks, Scrote! I'd love to be FWB with an ugly and dull creepster pushing 50! Sign me up - stat!
Love the bait and switch for all these lying men.
Don't let anyone fool you, ladies. Every man on a dating app is only looking for sex. Case. closed .
And before FDS? I would let this get to me, thinking there was something I was doing wrong that didn't present me as girlfriend material. F that . The men are the problem .
I know now I'm not going to find a diamond in the rough this way. They're all LVM with an agenda .
I genuinely think a lot of men see OLD as a free brothel. They log on when they’re horny and click on photos of women they want to fuck.
Im starting to think that men are on dating apps because they literally don’t get outside anywhere else. I’ve never used dating apps to meet men but my friend who has says they all have no idea how to talk to women. It’s crazy.
"He sent the rejection text before I got a chance to! He said he finds me very attractive and wants a physical relationship with me, but can't offer more."
I totally get that. It's hilarious when the "covering up my bald spot in my photos" guy rushes to send a rejection. So pathetic that you just have to laugh.
Dating apps are a cesspool. It is chock full of guys who think that women are so hungry for male attention and will accept anything.
Who are these guys anyway? They are total strangers just like you and me. The distinct difference is he is not being truthful about who he is. A single woman is more likely to find a guy parading himself as such when in reality he is stepping out on who he is with (bangmaid, marriage, separation, or divorce) or has a history of sexual assault. Really, what guy is on a dating app with honorable intentions?
I’m sure he could tell you were absolutely not into him (men get the message loud and clear but pretend they don’t), which activated his insecurities and made him feel inadequate. He sent the “rejection” text just to try and humiliate you a bit as revenge, like “You’re only good enough for a hookup SO THERE!!!”
They're trash out in the wild as well! That's where I met the last couple NVM that pissed me off, lol!
If I had a dollar for every time an ugly, creepy scrote offered me no-strings-attached sex, I'd be rich.
I'm sure we'd all be rich.
I think a lot of men get bigger ego boosts from hooking up with marriage minded women instead of the hookup culture pickmes.
Thats why every long term relationship marketed dating app eventually turns into a place that's full of men looking for one night stands.
I also noticed a lot of the redpill "trad wife seeking" men obsess over tinder statistics or they'll do "social experiments" using the app for hours hoping to humble a woman and publically humiliate her.
They often try to prove to themselves that "all women are the same so men have humble them," Then get angry/act all suprised at all the libfem pickmes they see on an app like TINDER. "MoDeRn WoMaN ArE A mAjOr PrObLeM In OuR sOcIEty"
Men just want to control and conquer a woman. Thats why they often chase the exact opposite of what they claim to want. Misogyniststic males aren't looking for compatible women they want women they can conquer and dominate. Why would they care about a womans personality at all?
Predatory men want to mold a woman's personality to his liking, they don't care about what a woman actually wants because a woman to them is considered a subhuman object.
If theres an adventurous, childfree, financially independent woman who enjoys being single, then he wants to humble and convert her into a barefoot pregnant bandmaid who submits to a boring mediocre average joe that never leaves the house.
If a woman is sexually inexperienced, has conservative beliefs and she's looking for a husband, then the men often want to believe they're so "sexy, charming and desirable" that she'll discard all her standards/values just to throw herself at him. Then once he gets rejected, found out or he simply gets bored then he looks for his next narcissistic high.
It's even more of an ego boost for him if the previous woman becomes emotionally attached to him (usually because she was lovebombed, she lost her virginity to him , got pregnant with his baby or was future faked) Bonus points if he labels her "the crazy obsessive ex" to every new woman he meets.
Both types of men are manipulative, predatory, controlling and parasitic.
They get off on ruining womens lives.
Shit happens all the time, I straight up stopped even when I could share paragraphs with a guy, like I'm exhausted and I know how it ends despite the 4 hour long philosophy discussions and the paragraphs of work related questions. They're all genetically inferior and doomed to fail at reproducing effectively. So sad, they'll never feel the genuine love and meaning a woman can provide.
While they're on hedonistic mind-numbing cum benders people wonder why "men aren't doing well, boo hoo" what's the point of doing well? This is why they exist, to fuck and then die. And they're trying to get undeserved genetic FedEx shipping without the effort. They have no meaning, like seriously. Call me a Disney princess but aye atleast I can maintain relationship without thinking about banging me mum or every other living/non-living thing on planet earth.
Anyway keep doing you, that guy can suck diiiiiiiiiiiiiiicks. He's going to attract pick-mes and they're gonna come here traumatized and the cycle will continue. Stay strong.