Like I date both men and girls and at least in my pool the majority of "low effort" profiles will be women unfortunately...
But even unrelated to that, all im saying is that why can't we let these people just be themselves and swipe left? If someone doesn't want to max their looks or invest into dating as much as others then why should they be blamed for it? If anything it shows these people being their genuine (unattractive) selves which i find much more (attractive) than some dude/girl that is fake just to appeal to potential partners on bumble.
I know, hot take but im sure there might be some that understand the line of thought:)
Men need to realise that a low-effort profile screams entitlement. "I'm sure the wimmins are going to just thrown themselves at me, so why bother filling this out". I did LOL @ Karl Pilkington quotes tbh.
well you always get what you pay for... Men already get far far fewer matches than Women and when they put up low effort profiles, then they wont get any matches at all and they'll know why... I'd say this doesn't scream "entitlement" as much as it does "hey I dont seriously date right now" ... Which is fine in my opinion. Its kinda like the lottery, even when nobody in the world expects to win something, millions upon millions still gamble for the slim chances of getting that sweet jackpot... Very comparable with the OLD situation for these guys. They don't want to invest into serious dating but still be out there for that 1 in a 1000 reason they meet the one.
These low effort profile schmos are the kind that “would suffice” in between relationships, y’know. Basically, the ones that’ll do for easy booty calls.I know that most FDS discourage booty calls and most forms of NSA sex. But if my husband dies and/or suddenly leaves?! I have physical needs that a toy don’t fix! I already procreated and I’m fixed. STI’s would be the concern: i am vaxxed against HPV and Hepatitises, I’d be carrying my own condoms, PReP also exist, etc.
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Sometimes it really feels like a curse to be straight. Men are sooo unattractive - at least the majority of this batch. Yuck
Wow we really are living in the worst timeline
I get where you are coming from but why bother?
Like I date both men and girls and at least in my pool the majority of "low effort" profiles will be women unfortunately...
But even unrelated to that, all im saying is that why can't we let these people just be themselves and swipe left? If someone doesn't want to max their looks or invest into dating as much as others then why should they be blamed for it? If anything it shows these people being their genuine (unattractive) selves which i find much more (attractive) than some dude/girl that is fake just to appeal to potential partners on bumble.
I know, hot take but im sure there might be some that understand the line of thought:)
They are all ugly scrotes lol
Andrew started with a smiling photo then got progressively more and more creepy with the photos
yea not even one of these guys is appealing in the least to me
Unpopular opinion: Andrew, 36, looks decent. Looks better shaved. John, 30, isn’t horrible. Adam, 33, has a pretty smile.
Nathan, 31, is also cute.
These dudes’ only issue is their low effort profile. Otherwise, I don’t see anything inherently wrong with them.
Not any better than Australian bumble 🫣
A couple of these I have seen online too! But Tinder!! Never again