I'm trying dating again since I'm ready to flex my FDS muscles and jfc men these days aren't even men. They don't bother doing the pursuing and instead, expect to be chased. Like sir, you can't even ask me out on a date and you're treating me like one of your bros. Go fuck your bro instead???
Blocking and deleting without hesitation is so satisfying though. This one loser really tried begging not to ghost him too LMAO guess what its BLOCKIANA BITCH.
I know my past pickme self would've been pressured to chase and give these men the benefit of doubt, but each and every single time I'd done so in the past all I got back was abuse, trauma and wasted precious time. Yeah, hard pass.
I see lots of men irl and online these days bragging about being "soy boys" or "femme boys" yet they wanna waste a womens time and not date another man instead 🤢
Seriously thank god I'm bisexual bc women >>>>> all the way. What the hell is wrong with men?? Do HVM in Gen Z(my gen) who know how to properly court and respect women even exist??
The only HVM I know are a few uncles who treat me well and are always there for me unlike my own father but I have yet to meet any man my age who's decent.
Ya'll I'm really only going to date women from here on out. Its so hard to meet single gay or queer women though
"Soy boys" want to be the star of the relationship.
Chase me, pay for me, buy me flowers, plan the date, fuck me, tell me how pretty and precious I am.
Nothing dries me up faster than a guy who wants to be the woman in the relationship.
Men nowadays can't even offer remotely decent sex. How can a man constantly obsess over sex and think about it every few minutes yet be so terrible at it?
Men are so selfish and awful at it that they frequently deny the existence of the female orgasm and their porn fried brains expect women to perform for their sexually degenerate and traumatizing fetishes.
Whats worse is usually men get super offended when a woman describes what she ACTUALLY likes and DOESN'T like. These nvm see themselves as sex gods, who know everything just because they watched a bunch of shitty podcasts, slept with a few pickmes and coom to pornography.
Also, the few pickmes that'll sexually chase and put up with these these nvm for validation and love, dont even remotely benefit. This is because the scroutes openly neg and secretly hate the women and see them as disposable objects. Men act like it's nails on chalkboard to give any validation or love to a pickme thats willing to 🦆them. They don't wanna look like SiMpS in Fwont oF da BrOs
Lol, a beavis and butthead character is more respectful to woman than the average modern male. 🤡 The bar is in hell. Like a woman giving a scroute access to her body is like the greatest gift that can be given to a man and in return the man will see the woman as subhuman. 🤦♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️Go figure
As a straight woman with a high libido I'd rather remain voluntarily celibate for the rest of my life and ignore my urges than get into a relationship with a lv scroute. Most men have literally nothing to offer but B.S
And men wonder why Online dating is so dry nowadays and full of bots. Even the hookup culture pickmes are opting out and losing interest. Men are so upset about it because they can't get access to their free prostitute deliverys anymore.
GOOD I hope these scroutes shrivel up in their loneliness. Die mad.
I honestly think the softdick/boi phenomenon is the gross, rotting underbelly of the pornsick phenomenon. On the overt side, you have active misogyny, aggression, anger, using, abusing, dumping women. This is the more covert side, as in yeah, they'll do all that too, once they reel you in and form a bond, and I'd suspect a trauma bond.
Porn sick, limp dick applies here. I can't stand men who are passive; to me it sends a clear message of passivity, of not caring. Wanting to be chased from men indicates mainly just wanting an ego boost, and once they have that from a woman, she's taught them how to treat her, in that she'll accept crumbs of attention, and then he can give less and less. Big no thanks to both sides of it. I don't want aggressive losers, nor do I ever want passive losers.
I wish I was Bi as well, would have two options and honestly not sure i want kids anyway so dating a woman wouldnt even be a bad option for me.
What ive dealt with is men asking ME what i want to do for a date, messaging me but not being able to carry a conversation, are fuckboys plain and simple or worse. I've not met a single man who acts like a gentleman, pays for the dates, actually suggests what to do for a date, and consistently replies to messages without cancelling plans or ghosting. Dont feel bad about ghosting because men will do it in a fucking heartbeat without a care in the world.
From my experience of dating men, they just use you for validation and arent actually interested in you personally. They want to know that a woman likes them, finds them attractive and wants to sleep with them, if they find out the answer is no they will either turn nasty, disappear or be a friend but trying to ask you out, the last scenario being the rarest.
Only my ex actually had more of a masculine energy, he chased me, initiated everything, bought me gifts - because he was actually interested in me. Most guys are not interested in any form of relationship and are there for validation and time wasting. They probably speak to lots of girls at once and rotate around them.
Definitely, had all these experiences.
Sounds like the human race is going to die out lol men are useless.
Can women just ghost men for a whole year or ten, then they might start to wonder if it's them is the problem
Obviously I don't want a guy who's too controlling but most men these days are ridiculously passive with regard to dating and it's a massive turn-off. I'm so sick of guys who ask to "hang out" and then ask me what I want to do. You'd swear that expecting a guy to ask you out, plan and pay for a date was asking for the world. The good thing about FDS, is that it taught me not to even bother with these kinds of men which is absolutely right. Anytime I did go out with a guy who behaved like that, it was never worth it.
You bring up a good point of men acting like they want to just date other men. I think the problem is they have totally lost the ability to make friends with other men, so we are expected to fill EVERY role and they no longer see the difference. I see so many dating profiles that say “I like fishing, hunting, sports, race cars, and video games. Looking for a woman who likes the same.”
BRO don’t you have friends to do any of that with?? I have ZERO masculine hobbies except occasionally video games and that’s often a dealbreaker for them.
I know some women truly enjoy traditionally masculine hobbies and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. I just hate that it seems to be the expectation that we all love sports now.
Gen Z men are some of the lowest quality. I think we need to mass reject a lot of them so they can get their shit together. If he is gen z and used tik tok I wouldn’t even bother. But also of course don’t go dating older men. The only thing waiting for you up there is a woke bro millennial lmao.
This post and comments is hilarious 😂. Thank you OP for making my day
I don't blame you one bit for wanting to date only women. At least you know that the sex will be better 🙂
But seriously, as I've heard younger people say "It's rough out in these dating streets".