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I'm not even talking about men with an extremely HV personality. I'm talking about something as basic as men looking for a lifelong partner he truly loves (i.e. the type of guy who is the main character of romance movies like Titanic - not the actors portraying them of course). It seems like the vast majority men (probably over 90%) fall into the following two categories:
The trophy girlfriend hunter. These men dream of dating women they see as 10/10 in terms of looks. They are addicted to porn and follow 100+ models on Instagram. Obviously women like that are a rarity and most likely not interested in them unless if they have some extremely desirable traits themselves. They will hence get a girlfriend as a placeholder (as they can at least have free sex) while pursuing other women behind her back to see if they can get a hotter gf. Even if these men get a girl they see as 10/10 in terms of looks, they have no intention of marrying her as they will eventually become bored of her. They'll probably only get married when they are middle-aged or elderly and need someone to care for their health issues in the long run.
The golden digger. These men don't care about women's looks that much. They mainly want a wealthy woman they can leech off of for the rest of their lives as they dream of living in a mansion or fancy penthouse and not having to work. This type of men is becoming more common given how woman are earning more than 50 years ago. Young heiress to trust funds are their ideal SOs. Just like the trophy gf hunters, they will look for placeholder gfs and dump her when they can snag a richer girl. They will however be willing to get married when they manage to snag an ultra rich gf.
And yes, just by dating intention alone, most men are not boyfriend material. And then among the men looking for a lifelong partner, most of them are either taken, not your type, or have some really undesirable traits. Finding a single compatible HVM is so tough...
Men are encouraged to 'sow their seed' and 'they have all the time'. Women are reminded that they have an 'expiry date'. These aren't compatible.
If we observed men objectively we wouldn't want to pair with them long term either. They're more headache than their worth but women are conditioned to value romance in a way men are not. That's the primary cause of the imbalance alongside the deludedbeliefs of their own superiority and devaluation of women.
I found one of those that was elderly thinking he had a chance with me. Insane. I friend zone him to boot as to not give him a chance with me then one day out of the blue started going on about how he "didnt know what he was gonna do with himself" LOL sounds like my narcissistic parents. hes 20 years older than me looking for his retirement plan!!! The nursing home is right over there homie I'm still young and not looking to be feeding him soup
I think women should just stand still and stop everything. Men take responsibility for everything from now on. We're damned if we do and also if we don't so let's strike, pull back everything, chill let men worry about dying alone, hey sure they keep threatening us with it or rape torture murder etc let the men worry when the human species starts dying out, i wish I could live long enough to see their faces but I know already they'll be cornered with no way back, ever, thanks to women ❤️