I introduced my cousin to FDS about a year ago. she constantly rejected it until she watched Ali Wong's Comedy on Netflix, Don Wong. It hit her like a ton of bricks and she has been going through all the roller coaster emotions of having the rose tinted glasses knocked off. She wanted to do a social experiment on the lies men tell. Let me preface this by saying that I don't agree with her doing this experiment because I don't think women should waste time on men. However, I think this is worth a mention because new FDSers can learn something from her experiment.
She lives in a smallish European country. She gathered a few of her female friends/family and had them download dating apps and set their location to areas where she knew local scrotes would be. She deliberately looked for and had them try to match with men that ONLY she knew as friends, friends of friends, acquaintances, old flames/ex boyfriends, old coworkers, etc. The messages between the new women and these scrotes were shared in a group chat. Ladies, let me tell you. EVERY. SINGLE. SCROTE. LIED to these new women. They lied about their hobbies and dating history by mirroring the hobbies and dating history of whichever woman they were talking to. I did not participate in this experiment. But I was in the group chats because I was incredibly curious. I knew some of these men through my cousin, so I was shocked that all of them lied so much. I knew men lied but I didn't know they lied about everything and anything unnecessarily! I'm never sleeping with another man unless we're in a committed relationship for 6 months and he's willing to get tested together. In fact I'm happy never dating again & staying single.
Some of them outright lied about their line of work, or significantly exaggerated what they did. There was some overlap in dating app matches, meaning sometimes more than one lady matched with a scrote. We found that a lot of the conversation that appeared genuine was copied and pasted. Most copy pastes are obvious. But one scrote pasted a whole heartfelt paragraph to four different women after asking them the exact same seemingly, deep genuine questions about themselves. He claimed that he got divorced two years ago, because his wife left him for another man. He added this, " I was born in Singapore but moved here when I was 14. I’m half Indian and half persian - own a software dev business and also have a real estate company - I live by myself and also take care of mum (she has Alzheimer's) for a few hours in the Nursing home every day. I’m looking for a long term relationship with someone engaging and fun. I really value good conversations amazing physical chemistry 🚩and overall companionship." He told another lady he was born in London and another that he was born in Indonesia 🙄
Here is what we know about him in real life. His wife left him because he was an absolute c#nt who beat her and cheated on her. It's a known thing about him in the small community my cousin lives in. His mum does NOT have Alzheimer's and does NOT live in a nursing home. She is elderly but in good health and lives at home with him and his dad, who is very much alive. His dad started those businesses and still owns them. He will inherit these businesses from his dad. I am just noticing how manipulative it is when men try to play on your empathy by saying something like their mum has Alzheimer's. I wonder if this is this some Andrew Tate red pill nonsense.
A lot of men would send their phone numbers early into the conversation. My cousin decided to collect the phone numbers and text them from a VoIP phone number. She would text them using random/fake names that they most likely didn't have as matches For example she would text something along the lines of. "Hey this is Bloom/ Ria/Fleur/ thanks for sharing your number. How are you?"
One guy responded.
"Hey there! Loved your profile!"
These men were all so fake!!!
I know some of the new ladies think that FDS is harsh but it's really not. FDS is meant for your safety and protection. I have another post coming soon that is very closely related to this. This also goes to show that we should avoid OLD.
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Edited: Sep 28, 2022
Men lie about everything and anything unnecessarily
Men lie about everything and anything unnecessarily
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Ya know what. This makes me think back to one dude I dated for a little bit. He told me he loved hiking and camping and did so on his own. But when I invited him? Nada. He never went on his own and he didn’t even own a tent. Omg. And I had a bf who said he wrote poetry, yet I never saw or heard him recite one of his works. Oh god, now that I’m thinking about it a lot of the dudes I’ve dated have lied about likes, work, and the such. Jeez. Scary thought. I’d say dating guys in real life where you actually meet them in hobby groups is the best option because then you see them doing things they actually enjoy doing. That ex never left his house except to eat, see me, and go to work. That was it. Vs the guys I’d dated thru hobby groups who actively enjoyed and participated in the hobbies. I also think this is why word of mouth and dating friends of friends is a good idea, too, so you can compare. Good job, ladies. Thank you for the experiment.
I just want to say your cousin did not waste time at all. SHE IS A HERO!!! Please tell her i'm very grateful that she spent her precious time doing this research. sisters, men are trash and i don't even know why we still try. where do you get your hope from? i come here mostly to stay single because the more i learn about men, the farther away from them i want to be.
Your cousin is a genius 😂
it’s always fun to see how desperate they are to get vulva’s, i’m happy that i don’t fall for it, they won’t change, i hope in the future every girl and women is aware of this behaviour
They do it on CVs as well.
Sounds about right lol. The last time i tried OLD half the dudes I talked to lied about something.
One fatfished me. He was a little big in his pictures, which is okay, but in the newer pictures he sent me he was about 50 pounds heavier than that.
Another didn't mention that he has a kid and an ex wife, or that he's ex military. (Hmm its almost like he knows all 3 of those things are wife beater red flags) He was rude af to me because of my work schedule? He told me "GoOd LuCk wItH ThAt" lol so I blocked him. Good luck with your pissy attitude and shitty low paying job, sir. (And the fact that you ruined multiple lives before even entering your 30s)
The most disappointing one lied about not having social media for 5 years. I didn't even have to use someone elses social media to spy on him, I could tell by the way he talked he is a doom/coom scroller. I told him I got off of social media when the censorship became too obvious to ignore. He insinuated that i'm a terrorist for noticing/not having social media. (Sooo he was mirroring me but also criticizing me lol) Somebody who hasn't had SM for 5yrs is a little less likely to know about said censorship, let alone fucking support it? Yuck. Have fun being a - (as Mark zuckerberg himself worded it, in regards to people who use his platform) fucking idiot. :')
Men are so arrogant and butthurt and can’t stand that women aren’t handed to them on a silver platter anymore, that we are more successful than they are and wont settle for their bare minimum scrote behavior. I’m convinced they are OLD just to bully women at this point, that’s the only access they have and the partial anonymity lets their scrotey true colors show. This red pill garbage is their death rattle. They are mad that society isn’t handing them a wife and a job. The more i see women, especially the younger gen waking up to this the more i know they won’t win. We don’t need them.
They are utterly obsessed with getting us, they spend thousands on red pill vomit and hours lying and bullshitting to get a piece. They want and need us.
We on the other hand are walking the fuck away because we are tired and realize the ROI isn’t woth it with men.
Thank you for sharing & please thank your cousin. Woman puts in the WORK!
This could be a Netflix series!
Now imagine someone doing this live with men so women can actually see it front of their eyes 😉
So this is the legendary post