Man "forgets" to bring his wallet on a date.

These men are doing a fantastic job in making sure that one day, absolutely zero women are going to be interested in going out on a date with a man ever again.

I would say, "I forgot my wallet too! Guess we're both washing dishes!"

Yep! They do this. It happened to me once.

it was before fds , I had just gotten out of a long term relationship too. I met the guy off tinder and he was very eager to take me out on a date. So I agreed almost immediately! He got there late and said he was late because he couldn’t find his wallet. Didn’t think anything of it. I assumed he found it. But the bill comes and says he doesn’t have his wallet. So I told him to e transfer me the money. And I see him doing things on his phone and I pay.

After I pay I said that I don’t have it and asked him to try again. He starts doing things on his phone again and says he transferred me the money and AGAIN I said I didn’t have it and told him to stop pretending and actually send me the money. So then said he did it. But actually he did not. so I get up and he offers to drive me home because I walked and I said no. About 15 mins after I get home he texts me to ask me out again. And I told him I’ll go out with him again when he pays me what he owes me. He never did pay me but he constantly asked me out and i eventually had to block 😂

That happened to me when I was 18 and fresh into dating. This dude had LIED about his age, had old photos and looked nothing like I thought he would. The waitress had overheard most of the convo, where this dude (who had pics from 19, said he was 19 on his profile, and actually was 31) admitted to lying on his profile and telling me I didn’t look like my pics either in defense bc I wasn’t wearing my festival makeup, even tho that was one photo of many where I looked normal in all of the rest of em. She went ape shit on him when he tried to make me pay and said “the man always pays!” She also said he should be ashamed of himself for his disgusting behavior. That lady had my back and I am forever grateful to her. He was a lot bigger than me and I had been worried about him following me out to my car so her keeping him there while I left also allowed me to escape safely.

i would act all nice and set up a second date. then i'd forget to bring myself to the date.

This is a flat out lie right? (This has thankfully never happened to me) but what if you just say "oh I don't bring my wallet on dates" and sit there? Do they eventually sheepishly pull out their wallet? Like this guy drove there. Does he also not have his DL on him??

This is so cringe. Imagine having so little self-worth as a man that you have to perform this level of theatrics to trick a woman into splitting the bill.

This incident serves as a reminder that a woman should never use her wallet on a date. When the woman pays, the man wins. Never let that happen.

I would spit-laugh in his face and flatly remark that I don’t carry my wallet on dates I’ve been invited to. Then go home!

All of that time, effort, investment, lying, and deception for what? To ultimately make her go 50/50. What the actual fuck? It's just an ego hit for them. It's psychotic to orchestrate all of this for a small ego hit. Was it because she was an actual human girl as opposed to an AI or chatbot or cam girl? When you really stop to think about every little thing this guy did, it's very disturbing on both a day-to-day level and existentially. It's like they are all aliens now or something. This is not how humans act.

I’ve had men even do this BEFORE we even went out on a date - back when I was on Tinder I had a guy who asked me out and we had plans for the weekend with a set time and date. Seemed all good and then he started messaging about how his debit card was missing or being replaced, I can’t quite remember what was up with it, and that he was getting one in the mail and was worried about our date (it was such a strange convo - I was thinking to myself why on earth would you talk about not having a means to pay after you set up a date!). I message back that we should meet at an alternate time/day (should’ve just stopped there and blocked). He continues to fumble and I ghost because I did not and would not bow down and be like “no worries, I’ll cover it!” like he was obviously hoping I would - for a man I hadn’t even met in person yet! I then got some great satisfaction when the next day he embarrassingly messaged, “wow I really messed this up didn’t I?” At least he was a somewhat self-aware scrote, but ugh.

yes, this happened to me. he convinced me to go to an all-you-can-eat sushi restaurant. to his credit, he said he forgot it before we went in, as soon as we parked.

get your shit together, scrotes, regardless of whether it's on purpose or not.

many of them don't cook or help manage a household...they literally work, play video games and watch tv, go out to eat and maybe make a car + phone payment every once in awhile. half of them can barely plan their own birthdays. their lives are not that hard.

Pay for your own food, then tell him “good luck” as you block and delete.

It's either a scam, or he's too much of a dipshit to remember it. But I'm leaning toward scam.

Either way if a guy did this to me I'd immediately leave and let him flounder with the establishment and never see that scrote again.

Aaaaaaaand this is when you "excuse yourself to the bathroom" and don't come back.

Unfortunately yes, this has happened to me before FDS. Scrote took me to a fancy restaurant, I commented on how it’s kind of expensive and he said “don‘t worry, it won’t be if we only order appetizers” and then proceeded to order almost everything on the menu and conveniently “forgetting” his wallet 🙄. I dated him for a couple of months after that, though 🤡

A man once told me he forgot his wallet…. but before we even went in, he transferred me the amount he expected it will cost for both of us (it was a coffee date). So no scam involved. Still bizarre and a really bad impression, and didn’t go out with him ever again.

Or "Raise your sons properly" Anyone can forget his wallet but this is a tactic most men use. Whoever dares to do that with me gets ghosted.

These are the kinds of 30+ year-old men who date 20-year-old women because they're the only ones who will buy this shit.

So many people have payWave with their phones in Australia, I would just laugh at him.

Does America have tap (your card or phone) to pay with your eftpos yet?