Imagine a grown ass 23-year old man on his hands and knees, crying at me (f24 roommate) because none of the girls he messaged online wants to fuck him with a strap on. Saying that he "doesn't know" what will happen if he doesn't get some action. Like sex is some sort of deep human need all the 3vil women are DEPRIVING HIM OF. Followed by him following me around the apartment trying to get me to do the deed (of course).
I didn't have a choice but to move in with him asap after another roommate deal unexpectedly fell through. He knows I'm a religious Christian and SA victim and this has not stopped periodic propositions and sexual harassment. I can't believe I'm typing this rn because most of the time he's normal, but this degree of scrotey behavior from a guy who seemed normal and pretty reserved when we first met is alarming. Idk what to do.
Men and women are not the same. We women continue to project our own characteristics onto men, and they are not, and cannot be like us because they are not biologically wired to think and act and be rational like a female. A male number one biological need is to replicate his genes. At any cost. So for him, yes, it feels like a huge mortal wound that is happening to him because women won't fuck. I fear your roommate is yet another incel about to be born. You are in danger whether you think you are or not. You are the closest female to him so he is going to do everything in his power to have sex with you. At 23, he is sexually peaking. His testosterone is the strongest now than it will ever be. He is going to continue to prey upon you in your home. I hope you sleep with your door locked. And change your bedroom lock to one with a key so he can't go in there when you aren't home to steal your underwear.