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Imagine a grown ass 23-year old man on his hands and knees, crying at me (f24 roommate) because none of the girls he messaged online wants to fuck him with a strap on. Saying that he "doesn't know" what will happen if he doesn't get some action. Like sex is some sort of deep human need all the 3vil women are DEPRIVING HIM OF. Followed by him following me around the apartment trying to get me to do the deed (of course).
I didn't have a choice but to move in with him asap after another roommate deal unexpectedly fell through. He knows I'm a religious Christian and SA victim and this has not stopped periodic propositions and sexual harassment. I can't believe I'm typing this rn because most of the time he's normal, but this degree of scrotey behavior from a guy who seemed normal and pretty reserved when we first met is alarming. Idk what to do.
Sister, that is a rape threat right there. Get the hell out of that living situation!
Tell him to get a guy to do it. Go on grindr and he'll have no shortage
GTFO. His true, depraved, entitled nature is on full display here. Do not accept his hollow apologies that will inevitably come when he wakes up embarassed of his behavior. This is how it begins....Nothing good will come from this situation. Ever. Make whatever sacrifices you need to make to change your living situation ASAP!
Lots of animals and human die without ever having sex.
Mazlows needs hierarchy where sex was placed with food and shelter was male propaganda.
Pure fucking evil entitlement.
Please don't tell men you are an SA victim. They think if you "let one man get away with it", why not two? You need to try to get out of there. I would say try to find a female roommate but most girls are Pick Mes and might still bring creepy weirdos around. Guess you have to ask hard questions and set boundaries to ever find something liveable with people but this isn't it. Story: Once on a dating site I went out with a man and thought the date went fine until he sent me a wall of text saying he doesn't think it will work out because he didn't know if I had any sex toys and if I did, it didn't seem like I would use them on his anus.. He was right, I blocked him Lol. Reminds me of your roomate.
Is this fetish the new big thing? I feel like we’ve quickly gone from a huge number of men who can only get off from anal sex (woman receiving), to a huge number of men who can only get off from being pegged.
Anyway, I can only reiterate what others are saying and ask you to get out of there ASAP. I am afraid you might be assaulted if you stay.
Men and women are not the same. We women continue to project our own characteristics onto men, and they are not, and cannot be like us because they are not biologically wired to think and act and be rational like a female. A male number one biological need is to replicate his genes. At any cost. So for him, yes, it feels like a huge mortal wound that is happening to him because women won't fuck. I fear your roommate is yet another incel about to be born. You are in danger whether you think you are or not. You are the closest female to him so he is going to do everything in his power to have sex with you. At 23, he is sexually peaking. His testosterone is the strongest now than it will ever be. He is going to continue to prey upon you in your home. I hope you sleep with your door locked. And change your bedroom lock to one with a key so he can't go in there when you aren't home to steal your underwear.
Men are on this earth to mate. They wake up and have wet dreams