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Met a guy through a social event, we hit it off, gave him my number, he texted me a LOT for a whole week plus. We met my next available weekend for a date...he drove quite a distance to see me...paid for everything. We had a good time. At the end of the night, I could tell he wanted sex. I didn't give it to him (of course! This was date #1 geez!). He called me a tease. I went home. The texting from him stopped. It sucked, because as usual, he "seemed like a good guy." Sigh...who was it that said "The nicest guy is the one you haven't slept with yet?"
Edit: I should mention this guy is close to my age, in his late 30s so wtf
Scrotes who want to have sex on the first date are such sluts/turn off. Why would you sleep with someone you just met, don't know if they have stds, could be a serial killer, etc? It should be in the fds handbook that if he wants to sleep together early on, even if he's not pushy and takes the first no, even if he's attractive as fuck and paid for the date and you wanna know what that mouth do 🤣 etc, he's lv because he doesn't respect himself so he's not going to respect you, regardless if you "give" it to him or not. (This is if you want a long term relationship) Why would a hv male want to share his body with a woman he's only met twice? So what if men can tell on the first date whether they want to spend the rest of their lives with you or not; wouldn't they want to be intimate and vulnerable with someone they know well and can trust!? He most likely sleeps with women he doesn't know on the regular, the trash took himself out so don't be too mad sis.
What a misogynist little scrote. I bet you'll get a "hey" text from him randomly in a couple months. What a loser this is why I'm done even trying, he wasted your time then insulted you when he didn't get what he wanted. And 100%, the nicest guys are the ones you haven't slept with yet ... he only was being nice and putting in effort in order to get his D wet. NOT because he's a good guy. Men are just sociopaths.
You know what's fucked up is even if you had slept with him he would put you in the back of the rotation anyways. After I quit having casual sex I noticed that rejecting a guy because of his red flags(actually getting to know them) and then masturbating is so much better than having sex with them, not having an orgasm, ending up masturbating anyways, and feeling low because I'm in the back of the line now lol. "Rejection is Gods protection" holds true
One week is probably the absolute maximum he could keep up the appearance of being a decent human being, then it became too exhausting. In person it would have been even less.
He was just looking for an ONS.
I have made this a rule now that after 1st date a guy tries to have sex with me it’s a no . It means this loser thinks we are worth a dinner ! Indirectly telling us that . This is so sad.
I am sorry that happened to you OP. His shitty behavior has nothing to do with who you are as a person. That's all on him. I'm sure if you gave in it would have resulted in the same manner. If anything you won in this scenario.
It’s so disappointing isn’t it. Block him and next Sis x
The nicest guy is the one who hasn’t had sex with you yet .
I know I shouldn’t be shocked, but WTF, men?! Sis, I hope you got the most expensive meal on the menu! Eff that scrote!
Hey ladies! Guess what? The scrote just texted me today. lol. There is another aforementioned social event coming up, and he texted me saying, "Not sure if you are mad at me. I am sorry if I didn't reach out to you. Didn't want to make it awkward. Hope we can be friends." (Not sure what he meant by "didn't want to make it awkward, but I am assuming he meant at the social event)