"If the man have to pay for all the bills, do everything for the family, and still need to do his half of chores - why need a woman?"

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Indeed, why does he need a woman? Why need to go out and exhaust himself working and finding money -- only to lose it once he got home? Why go on all those "stupid" dates and pay for all those "stupid" dinners and acting like a stupid clown trying to impress her? Why go on tinder and desperately swipe right on every women you came across?   Why you go out to clubs and try put "something" into a woman's drink? Why stay with someone you absolutely hate for years and years -- even promising her marriage and all other bullshit, while saying you hate her and couldn't "wait" to get away from her? Why not just go f**k out of that door right now?  Why do you always just have to insert every opportunity to gaslight every women you came across -- and feel the intense need to get her attention when she is busily happy in her own world? Why you just have to "convince" an uninterested, unbothered woman minding her own business that her "wall" is coming soon and she "needs" a man right now?  And don't get me started on what you choose to spend your free time doing in the privacy of your own space. What did you spend your hard-earned wages on last week?  Why indeed, that when a man gets married and have children, these things happen: 1) He got raises and promotions at work -- that equates more money without him even having to do more because "he got kids and wife to feed at home" 2) He got trust and respect from the people around him and the community where he lives 3) People's perception of him is always positive -- "An honest and hardworking family man" 4) He can aim for leadership positions at work and in the community -- and his chances are good 5) People just like him wherever he goes, especially when he got kids hanging around him  And yet she will be the one who still carry the most burden physically and mentally -- even when you do half of chores and pay all the bills. And unless she got a solid ground or her own business -- her career faces risk when she got married and start a family. And even then she faces more risks when she started a family for so many reasons (not just kids).   Including but not limited to: in-laws, society's perception, discrimination towards mothers, perception that mothers have to be this weird super-woman martyr angelic "being" that have zero personality, thoughts and desires of her own. And also those stupid. ass. fetishes. from men of all ages. I've seen 12 years old acting inappropriate towards his friend's mother ffs. And she was still expected to be "understanding and the mature one, he is just a kid". Um, how about no you creep? Kids need to learn how to respect someone from an early age -- better to nip that creep tendency in the bud am I right?  So unless we "magically" wake up in a world where men carry half the pregnancy term, experience the same level of risk in money-making opportunities and every aspect of your damn life once married and starting a family, and experience the same type of trauma every time you are thinking of adding a new family member -- she literally risk her financial safety net, beauty, health, time, energy, peace, everything for you.  The man better be ready to compensate for every minute of her life she graciously chooses to spend with him. You need her -- she doesn't need you.  So shut the f**k up and get lost if you don't have what it takes. Go dwell in your "man"-cave or whatever and leave those women alone.

Accepted Answer

It's only fair for men to pay all the bills and do half of chores since they have the advantage of physical strength...they have double of the physical strength, thus they get to do double of the work... And especially since they love to brag about how they are the sTrOnGeR gender, they might as well walk their talk.

SayNad · Answer

Yep, my late father had a blue collar job but still did 80% of the chores (and the one attending all school meetings) and all of the heavy stuff around the house. Well into his 60s. And like you said -- it didn't pose much of a problem because he had double the physical strength.

I ain't giving these weak manbabies any pity points -- if they can't do those things, gtfo my face.

TripleMoon · Answer

This parenting double standard is the worst of it all. People practically get on their knees and kiss the feet of men who walk a baby around in a shopping cart, as if the sun shines out of his ass for doing ANY BASIC PARENTING TASK. Or something like, if dad gives the kid cake for breakfast he's so fun and such a great guy, if mom does she's a TERRIBLE mother! I'm proudly childfree and society treating women like second class parents is certainly not convincing me to donate my pain and suffering.

TripleMoon · Answer

Absolutely accurate,  and in my opinion this mentality is contributing to the regression of our rights. People do not take pregnancy as seriously as they should, it is a physically DANGEROUS process and the US has a disgustingly high maternal death rate for a developed nation. It seems like society lies to women about it, censors its actual dangers and the suffering it causes, because less women would pop out tax payers.

Hell, go to Reddit and you'll see a thousand posts on why a kick to the testicles is "worse" than labor and delivery. Because yes, the accidental injury that you can ice is far worse than the potential days worth of agonizing labor, the tearing, and God forbid the possible perennial tear. Women are required to give birth, it is not a choice. If we all stopped, we'd be held down and forcibly impregnated.

SayNad · Answer

It gets much worse with all these "icons" on social media showing how "supermom" they are -- cleaning the entire house top to bottom 3 days after giving birth, run marathon and look like supermodel a week after giving birth, do 2345 things after giving birth, still working the night their water broke and yadda yadda yadda -- on top of the already monstrous tasks mother are expected to do while growing dem kids.

NOT helping also the growing popularity of movies (A Quiet Place, zombie movies) where women are shown as this badass superpowered kungfu-fighting gun-wielding "9-months pregnant" women taking down monsters like no problem. While giving birth alone and straight up running right after that.

And of course scrotes gonna be like -- "See? All these women can do this and that and win the damn Olympics while being pregnant and 3 days after giving birth -- why are you being so spoiled??" -- shut the f**k up boy you can't even run away from rabid dogs without pissing yourself stupid and you expect a heavily pregnant woman to do all those crazy stuff??

All these "badass superpowered moms" propaganda is literally torturing pregnant women to an early grave.

"If the man have to pay for all the bills, do everything for the family, and still need to do his half of chores - why need a woman?"

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