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I made the mistake of going out with someone from work and I don't think I've ever regretted anything so much, I hate having to go with tunnel vision to avoid stares and be careful where I go so I don't put up with nonsense like these:
- When we went out I had told him that I hated another person from the office for how she treated me and he told me that he hated her too and now coincidentally they are friends, even at the time I told him that it would hurt me a lot if he went out with her and to please not do it with me there watching it and he told me: I do what I fucking I want.
- He has ignored me to the extent of greeting the whole office except me AND ITS EXTREMELY AWKARD and when I decided to block him from social media (because it was already enough with seeing them every day as to also see him on my instagram) he became even more aggressive with the ignoring.
- When he had to look for me he would leave me a paper on my desk or send me a message on Zoom and one day I told him to please stop doing that because it was extremely uncomfortable to find papers on my desk and he told me that he didn't want to talk to me in person at all.
I can't even go out with my coworkers because I'm done with his bullshit and I dont like seeing him flirting with other women infront of me hahaha specially someone I told him that I hated
I am so sorry OP.
I feel you because something similar happened to me.
I dated a co worker but I was the one who ignored him because I couldn’t stare looking at him without crying. I was very very hurt.
I assure you, with extreme certainty that he is ignoring you and greeting everyone else but you because he is not done with the situation yet. He want to hurt you because he is the one who is hurt. He is trying to get a reaction out of you to make sure he is still in control. Someone who is mature and indifferent wouldn’t do it.
Don’t blame yourself for dating him. You had the best intention. it can happen.
byr the way, did tou dump or he ended things?