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Imagine going on a 1 mile hike with your boyfriend or fiance, and he lies to you and turns it into a 10 mile hike. He lied to her and it turned into a 5 hour ordeal for her.
Good on this account for calling out men's bullshit.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C17qwddBTzo/?igsh=ajA4Y2x2c3NuaWhh
Men love these shitty "bait and switch" tactics to test your boundaries and enjoy having that kind of power over you.
It starts with little things...
Telling you you are going to restaurant A but then switching to restaurant B you like less in the last moment
Promising you that you are only going to stay an hour at most at that event you don't really want to go to but then trapping you there for the whole evening because he is your only transportation home. Bonus points if he makes you out the be the bad, difficult, whiny guy for wanting to leave in front of the other people there
Telling you you can wear heels and don't need a jacket where you are going but then taking you somewhere where you will struggle to walk and freeze your butt off all evening
Telling you you are going somewhere alone or spending the evening at home alone and then "surprising" you by springing some of his friends or family members on you
etc. We've all been there. Don't tolerate this.
The entitlement— that if she complained about being tricked into a deliberately stressful situation, she’s “not the one”, but he gets to manipulate her all he wants and that’s fine? And the fact that he’s deliberately causing the stress towards somebody he supposedly “loves”… 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢
How did he get engaged (a PROMISE TO MARRY HER) and then turn around like, “nah I’m a test u a little more lmao”
I've had several neck surgeries and can't walk more than a mile or two. If a guy tricked me into a 10 mile walk, I'd probably end up in the hospital. It's evil to do something like this to a woman.
I love this guy's content. 😀