It just weirds me out. Even if he doesn't mean anything by that, it's just weird especially at his age of 50. I do all the work (I think) for taking care of my mom (when she was alive) and dad and he says lately how much he loves me and appreciates me for it and starts crying. The problem is that he used to tell me that if something happens to dad "today," that he can help me out financially and now he tells me that he needs to wait about 3 months before he "thinks" he can help me, money-wise.
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You don't have to talk to him.
Honey, I can't comment much since you don't provide much context, but I'll say this: Don't ignore your instincts, if you feel uncomfortable/icky/unsafe, your instinct is trying to tell you something.
if it weirds you out, I’d reccomend to maintain your distance. I have creepy male family members which I just avoid and I don’t really engage with much when I do see them.
Ok this is gonna be harsh.
You’re in between two men who are using you. Your dad and your brother.
Don’t take your dad in. Don’t talk to your brother - ESPECIALLY NOT every day. Maybe once a year - or never.
If you feel loyalty to your dad, visit him and check in. Do NOT bring him home to care for - this is a nightmare scenario and no woman should be used in this way. You’re young, and you have your own life.
Do you think your brother would sacrifice a moment for him? Nope. He’s manipulating you into sacrificing.
Don’t fall for this BS.