I didn’t know what the best way is to respond to a situation like this

But after analysing it I would have just remove the lingerie in silence without giving anyone a glance. Place them in my purse and walk away In Silence. Because men will always use your reaction to turn the sympathy towards themselves and make them look like the victim And you the moustache twirling villain, Silence is a powerful weapon and with that it’s like saying “I don’t answer questions” to a cop. With that nobody can criminalise you or accuse you of acting out of line with your self respect in tact. Of course Its completely justified to yell at the disgraceful excuse of a daughter but we live in a man’s world, everything you say can and will be used against you.

If this ever happen to you, get up don‘t say a word and leave. You have a right to remain silent. If you still feel you need to give ppl a piece of your mind then make sure you don’t do it over the phone without being recorded, Do it with text message, or email so that he cant come up with “His part of the story” because ppl always believe men’s part of the story.

A woman’s testimony only counts as half in the Middle East, and your side of the story is always labelled as a lie. Don’t give men the satisfaction by paining you as the oversensitive one.

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