He's expecting you to fawn over him and try to prove your worth by saying a coffee date is totally fine. It works with many women, even us before FDS.
So immediately block him. That way you will convey the message that his behavior is so pathetic you can't even bother. Totally the opposite of what he expects.
unfortunately it worked on me as well more times than i can count. it gets worse with all of this cultural signalling that women should love a man for who he is and shouldn't be expecting them to pay money for a woman he doesn't know, otherwise you're using him for a nice date. women have to now learn the hard way that NOT caring about what a man can offer means he's able to use you for what you offer. females are very selective and simply being chosen by one is a huge benefit. for that benefit you need to offer a benefit as well. these men know a woman's attention has more value than a latte, they're just trying to game the system to get what they want for free. behavior of the typical 0384858934th scrotum on the list.
"Ah, so you're not really interested. No thanks." Then immediately block & delete.
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Feb 26, 2023
“What if I think you only say that because you’re too poor to afford a shirt 🙃” this guy is like all the rest. Give up on these apps. He took 8 hours to message you and this is his offer? 😒
tough pill for him to swallow will be the one where he realizes no one will want him unless he shows he has some sort of value to provide. you're not going to get the benefits that come with a woman for free.
"what if i think most first dates should be where i show up without my hair done, in baggy clothing from walmart, yellow teeth from not buying whitestrips, only mascara on my eyes and acne showing everywhere?"
note how he says most. not all, most. i wonder in what situations he breaks this rule?
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Just unmatch him. If he is forewarned, then he will waste more of another poor woman’s life.
The fool is not worth the effort of schooling.
Ask him if he’s that financially unstable
He's expecting you to fawn over him and try to prove your worth by saying a coffee date is totally fine. It works with many women, even us before FDS.
So immediately block him. That way you will convey the message that his behavior is so pathetic you can't even bother. Totally the opposite of what he expects.
"Ah, so you're not really interested. No thanks." Then immediately block & delete.
“What if I think you only say that because you’re too poor to afford a shirt 🙃” this guy is like all the rest. Give up on these apps. He took 8 hours to message you and this is his offer? 😒
"what if i think most first dates should be where i show up without my hair done, in baggy clothing from walmart, yellow teeth from not buying whitestrips, only mascara on my eyes and acne showing everywhere?"
note how he says most. not all, most. i wonder in what situations he breaks this rule?
Tell him not to think so hard it's clearly hurting him
Bye Justin 👋 There’s his answer.
"Good for you"
"You're a low effort type of guy, huh?"
then get his answer and delete. lolololol
Block and delete. Do other women a favor and let him keep telling on his stupid self.
If you like him say " MY time needs to be compensated properly, it's dinner or move on"
If he ruined his chances by offering a coffee date then ignore him.