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Last December I informed my bf of 8 months about my father's funeral and how I'd be giving a eulogy… y'know, thinking he would show up and be supportive. No. He just wished me "good luck" over text as though it was normal and ok for him not to attend. I was so grateful for the overwhelming support and love shown at the funeral. Family friends from far away took time out of their busy jobs to show up. Heck, even my male friend randomly showed up at the funeral without me having to ask.
After the funeral finished, I texted the scrote about the friend showing up to make him feel shitty and he says "wish I could've been there" and doesn't even bother giving a reason as to why he didn't come. Then instead of inquiring about my speech or taking me out the next day, he sends a reel about freaking Minecraft??? Like is this some practical joke??? I just simply texted "enjoy disappointing your next gf :)" and blocked and deleted his ass for good. But man, my heart broke and I felt so disappointed. However, I do take responsibility in breaking my own heart by allowing SO MUCH shit to slide during the relationship. If I had the FDS mindset back then, he sure as hell wouldn't of made it past the first date. Anyways, I'm so keen to start my levelling up journey in 2023 and would love some support and encouragement ❤️
Wtf. Let me guess, funerals give him aNxIeTy. Guess what asshole, EVERYONE feels anxious at funerals. We go anyway! Get over it!
Or what it "I didn't know it was that big of a deal to you. You should have cOmMuNicAtEd better if you wanted me there." Communicate my ass!
What a piece of shit. Glad you got rid of him.
I'm sorry for your loss. The text reply about friggen minecraft says worlds about where his head was at. Total lack of integrity, honour, loyalty or concern for anything but his own pleasure. Good for you for just blocking him. Onwards and upwards from here.
I feel your pain and am so sorry for your loss. If you need someone who experienced the same to talk, feel free to message me.
I lost my father not too long ago as well and the reactions of friends and family and how/if they showed their support really show you who actually cares about you and will show up for you.
Your text reply was platinum FDS queen 👸 - well done. If he wanted to, he would. He prioritized bullshit over supporting you.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. My ex responded to my text that my grandfather had passed away with “how unfortunate.” Nothing more. My boss of two months was far more sympathetic; how sad is that?
I think lots of relationships do fail when someone is grieving. But sometimes that’s good, because it ultimately shows us who is in it for the long haul.
Every time I think I've seen the worst of men...
I am so sorry for your loss, first and foremost. I wish I could have attended the funeral and shown you my support, even if we don't know each other that well. Losing a parent is deeply painful and this is a time to be vulnerable together as a group. Your ex really failed hard at this.
May 2023 bring you much healing as well as an opportunity to show you a healthier relationship that will be there for you during both your highs and lows. You deserve that and much more.
I loved your line to dump him. Sorry you had to go thru that, but you're far better off without him. Your father is smiling down on you for being strong.😇
Oh no. I’m sorry for your loss chica. Now that you’re scrote free it’s definitely going to be. Abetter year.
I know I’m late to the party here but what a piece of shit