I’m probably an asshole but I ghosted a guy for being a depressed downer. First he was complaining that he had to work a lot and he’s disabled. I replied “aw ok that’s sad” Then he complained about being bored and lonely. Just why do men think that’s ok to say? They just sound desperate asl and yes I’m selfish, but it sounds like I’m their last option and they’re talking to me because they have no one else. It really set me off. Does anyone else think this way?
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That’s why block and delete is in the handbook.
That’s not a healthy way to express those emotions, much less to a woman he’s interested in. Sounds like a tactic to get you to fawn over him or make him feel better.
A lot of covert narcissist men tell women sob stories in the beginning to get you to feel pity for them, then that's when they know they got you and the abuse starts if you feel sorry for them. I never feel sorry for anyone anymore cause too many narcs got me in the past.
It sounds like he has a lot on his plate. What on earth would make him think he can juggle dating too🤦🏻♀️?
He can complain to other men! You did the right thing. Block him if you haven't already.
These guys not only ghost women for the same thing , but hang around to still try to use her for sex, knowing she’s depressed, knowing they still plan on ghosting
If he wants you to talk to him, then he should make an effort to be fun to talk to.
Also, men complaining is a huge turnoff, so there's no chance he's going to get a relationship with that attitude, and that's not you fault (unless he finds himself a nice Bobbi the Builder pickme)
It’s literally an act, tryna get you to pity him perhaps even pity fuck him. Men would literally die before talking the same way to their guy friends cause it’s a fucking pathetic thing to do cry, whine and complain like a fucking baby over shit. Besides how long have you even known him?
Men are always like oh she just wants my money meanwhile they try to fucking dump their frustrations onto women about their sad lives as if we are some public therapists. Boooohooo too bad y’all have a shitty emotional support, cry me a fucking river or maybe get a therapist from the money you think you want to save from ‘gold diggers’.
No
This is FDS, what do you think we are going to tell you?
look back at how many people are out of your life and your life didn't change much. you're still alive and kickin so that would suggest there's no regretting ghosting anymore.
If having strong boundaries and refusing to waste your time teaching a grown man what he did wrong so he can just be sneakier about it with the next woman, then damn, girl, you's a BITCH! And yes, society does make us feel like prioritizing and protecting ourselves is rude.
Proud BITCH right here. Welcome to the dark side 😎