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Okay, so I’ve known this guy for about 10 years now, we met in a political party youth faction. We were good friends (or so I thought) and then started finding ways to hit on me or spend time together alone, even inviting me to his dorm room at night. His dorm was a private college at my university and it was known for violent rapes and rape culture in general, as well as a place where other women would joke “oh you’re going to St. Paul’s? Better bring your rape whistle” like it was funny in some way. Anyway, my distaste for him made me all but cut him off as I was the VP of the political faction and he was the whip/secretary and it would’ve been uncomfortable at all the weekly meetings.
when I left the party as it was turning into a far right wing cesspit, i stopped contact w him but he would occasionally message me and kept bragging about his yacht and his semi private island etc (parents were loaded) and I just didn’t reply.
Anyway, yesterday, out of nowhere this pig sends me this. I’m fuming.
I do believe FDS canon is block and delete and i imagine this will be your best option. This individual clearly, adds nothing to your life. Letting him able to get in touch for any reason, is only going to enable his behaviour and continue to make you feel; "debased".
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Is he trying to imply that if you did do “sugar baby stuff” that his parents money would …? I can’t even put together a coherent thought about what he might be saying here. Males have a tendency to shit out of their mouths. They are so out of touch with their own emotions after years and years of outsourcing their emotional work to women around them so they say and do things that are only half-thoughts or half-feelings. This sounds like a mean half thought and also a classic narcissistic technique where they just want to get a reaction out of you and feed off the energy you give them. It’s disgusting! On the podcast recently “attention is currency” for these men — even the negative energy. Block and delete and feel your soul uplifted!
Don’t give him any energy positive or negative. Block and delete
ICK!! Says a lot more about him than it does you