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The post attracted a ton of people - and most had horrible advice to offer to the OP (man)! A lot were saying he was rude BUT agreeing with him and that next time he should clarify ahead of the date!
This is ridiculous. Even if you believe 50/50 how hard is it to pay for the first date?? Worse yet are all the women siding with the OP... barf.
The amount of male to male support on the tinder sub is hilarious. They are helping each other check out of the dating pool. When will they finally just date each other?
Yeah, if they complain I didn't pay I just say "oh, I'm sorry, I am not used to it!" So they compare themselves to other men and feel inadequate. Then I follow it up with "I didn't feel a connection" and get gone. I really don't want a bunch of men and pick mes ganging up on me because "equaaaaaalityyyyy."
It’s so annoying that men in the comments are using this to justify coffee dates and pick me’s saying they always go half. It’s so awful that this is the info that young girls would see. I would comment there, but I don’t wanna be wildly downvoted and hated on. Can’t subject myself to the abuse. Smh.
She dodged a bullet. Not only is he a 50/50 scrote, the fact that he tries to dogpile on her on reddit shows he's an abuser too. I wonder what the correlation is of 50/50 scrotes also being abusers 🤔
I would agree guys who want to go 50/50 should clarify ahead of the date (hell, they should put it on their profiles) so we can block them right away 😆
They don't want to waste their precious $30 on dinner and I don't want to waste my precious time. Everybody wins!
I honestly don’t know what guys expect at this point. If a girl is easy to win over, they don’t like that and find it suspicious. And to be honest, I think the mark of a HVW a lot of the time is that she does have standards for how she wants to be treated and will express them. But if a girl expects a guy to foot the bill on a first date, she’s a gold digger? The thing that gets me is I make good money but you’re not going to get access to my generosity until you show me that you can treat me well. These men are so immature, they look at the $30-40 cost of paying for another person on a date and think that’s the entire indicator of a relationship’s financial health. What they don’t look at is the costs that will come down the line when a relationship actually gets serious… like you won’t take me out for dinner but I’m supposed to be OK to sign a lease with you?
Just read through the comments... who the fuck is using dates for free food and movies? Like yeah i'm gonna talk to you for a week or more, get dressed up(probably), and go and use my valuable time to be vulnerable and meet a guy i've never met... for free stuff.
This is why I don't tell men what they did wrong. I'm not a charity, I'm not getting paid to educate someone, and I don't need the harassment.
This reminds me of my ex husband. We (and this was way before fds) did 50/50 on our first date. Later on I told him how I didn't like that at all and he just went: I went on many dates before our first date and always paid for all of them, I really didn't want to do this again in case it doesn't work out🤡
Someone correct me if I am wrong, but don't non-hetero communities preach "the one who asks is the one who pays?" If so, why do hetero women or women who date men have to keep taking the L?
Also, this type of discussion (in your links) is what grooms women to act codependently/pickme.
LVM Manual:
Step 1: Set low expectations for the date, like a lowball of coffee and/or a walk (shame her if she refuses or if she worries you may be an age murderer)
Step 2: if you do take her out to dinner, discuss or assume how much she earns and make a judgment from there. Offer to pay for dinner then guilt trip her afterward so she can Venmo you her half.
Step 3: Whine on reddit how women use you for dinner even if you go Dutch, because you are broke (not poor) and would rather stay home playing vidya
Step 4: Upvote and send lukewarm compliments to pickme posters on the forum. Tell them other ways to lower their standards and expectations to make your personal path of least resistance sting less.
Step 5: Rinse and repeat. Find your next date by swiping right on every single OLD profile regardless of what the profile says or how much you are attracted to the person. Dating is hard 🥺
Yessss!!! The comments were horrifying.
Lmfao removed within seconds. Fragile male ego on display
There are no HVM on tinder.
Lol @ this comment. They're out here splitting coffee dates too. That's ghetto.
(blue bubble is the man)
What a gift! She didn’t even have to endure a second date with this scrote before he revealed himself. Love it when that happens