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I met this guy in one of many clubs. We know eachother for about six months. He fully knows that I don't drive. I have expressed desire to go this restaurant known for its burgers that's two cities away once I get my license next year.
Today, he has the audacity to invite me for a chance to have dinner with him, but the catch is I gotta find my own ride because he's not in the area. 🥴 I flat out declined. I find it super scrotey for him to dangle that restaurant above my head, but I gotta commute two hours up there and back just to go on a date with him.
I think this is a "shit test" to see how much I'd be willing to go the lengths to see him. There's a possibility that he's going to call me up last minute to rearrange plans. Jokes on him though, since I made plans with a friend for hightea , and I won't have time to prepare for both things.
The restaurant I wanted to eat at was this fusion burger joint and I'm not showing up in my tea garden dress for a greasy burger. I would look out of place lol
UPDATE: I stuck to my guns and ended up not going. The days leading up to date was where he sent me pictures of food, and stuff I was missing out on. Here's the thing, I was having my own fun. He showed me pictures of all the food he ate at these fancy restaurants, but I was doing the same. I took myself out on dates, went to the movies, went shopping, and got my nails done. I even grabbed some desserts afterwards.
He stopped texting me on the day we were supposed to meet. I didn't care because I was with my friend. We had high tea, and took some pictures in a botanical garden. I went home and took myself out for the evening. I didn't notice that he posted pictures of his night out until this morning. He ended up not going to the burger place. It looked like he went to a carnival and won himself two tiny plushies.
Why would you find a ride in order to meet him at the restaurant, when you could instead find a ride in order to go without him, which is obviously preferable 😂 If he can’t even take you to the restaurant, he is providing 0 value. 🗑
Men really do play themselves! LOLOL what a doofus.
Instead of having dinner ( a burger! not even steak or lobster) and spending the evening with you, he's gonna death grip his dick (again) at home alone. No doubt while complaining to the manosphere about how entitled women are.
Good on you for shutting him down.
I bet your friends would pick you up if they really wanted you to go to the specific place with them. I know that I would do that for a friend in the same situation who is waiting on their driver's license. This man cannot do this on a date. You should have much higher expectations from a romantic prospect than from a friendship because
your romantic partner is someone that you see and spend every day with.
This was a shit test on his part. Yesterday my male cousin was talking about how he couldn't fathom how much shit women take from men. He found it truly unbelievable to him because him and most men would never tolerate that. The was the underlying implication that men respect women less generally because they know we tolerate a lot of bullshit. I'm not saying I agree with any of this I'm just stating the way men are and think. Please block & delete. No need to give him any more chances to shit test you again. A man who really liked and respected and wanted to see you would NOT do this. The shit test is to see if you have poor boundaries because then they feel it'seasier to coerce women into sex.
Living that sweet sweet pretty dress, high tea, scrote-free lifestyle. Theres NOTHING better.
I had a guy ask me when I was gonna drive to Baltimore and take him out many years ago when I lived in Arlington, VA. That's a 2 hour or more drive depending upon traffic. I told him, "Never. That sounds like something an insecure woman who hates herself would do." Your story reminds me of that guy.
He basically said "come if you want, I don't care." Those aren't plans and it's not a date. It's either a shit test, or he sees you as basically a random stranger. Either way he does not want to get to know you.
Yup. Thank goodness with FDS we can see these things so quick. Another FDS Queen win!
In my highschool days I would have probs picked him up and driven there SMH
dodged a bullet. or rather you killed an Unaware Wolf with your sliver bullet.
OP- can you update us on this? What ended up happening with scrote?
He can drive for two hours to go clubbing, but not to pick up a date? He's just lazy.