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On FB today, I wrote a post on one of my groups, The fact that I'm attracted to men proves sexuality isn't a choice. Post is included here. Just had some scrote text me directly that I should "get used to being alone" -- thanks, I am, it's awesome. He then said "relationships can't be based on intransigence" which makes no sense. My whole post said I'm tired of men who are co-dependent. I'd like a partner who also values his own space. Still apparently too much to ask.
I'm a bit concerned that someone found my private number and texted directly. If this is Texas Lawyer scrote with a fake number, or some rando, whatever. For the record I probably have one of the biggest digital footprints ever. I've been online since 1992.
Here's the original post: "Oh y’all, I am so tired of lonely men online. I’ve chatted on different programs since the 90s so I’m an old hand online. I’m also an older woman: 50+, twice married, 25 years, widowed 2016. These days very happy on my own. Wouldn’t mind companionship but he has to have his own house; we would keep money separate; and he has to be an introvert and territorial like I am. I’d like fun companionship, nothing legal at my stage of life.
What I keep running into over and over is these men online who are so needy, clingy, co-dependent. It’s like they have tentacles. And what’s truly toxic is how they latch on and won’t let go until or unless I block them. And trust me, folks, I’m using my words! I tell them point blank: content on my own, haven’t really tried to date, won’t marry a third time, just here to chat and pass time. I guess they see this as a challenge to be overcome.
And at that point, we are at loggerheads and a complete stalemate. We are not on the same page. It’s about power and control so the man will get blocked and deleted every single time. I have the absolute right to want what I want on terms that benefit me. No man ever has the right to try to bulldoze boundaries, wants, needs. No man (no person but man in this case specifically) ever has the right to think that what he wants is more important and I should just knuckle under. Coercion fails. I make sure it fails every time. Rant over, thanks for reading.
P. S. I love how they make themselves even more lonely and alone by failing to respect wishes. They bring their own karma on themselves. I have zero sympathy."
You: These days I'm very happy on my own.
Scrote: Get used to being alone
Every man I have dated has tried to cohabit with me very early on, and behaved like they were bestowing some great gift on me by doing so. My most recent ex who turned out to be a very sketchy and abusive scrote, was eluding to cohabitation just four months in, and pretty much took over the renovation plans of my house pretending he was some kind of hero when it turned out he actually wanted to move in with me. I mistook this for commitment and care, it wasn't... it was his own selfish agenda at work. Guard your independence and your equity like the lioness you are. Pick a man who is equal to you in property and income, and go from there.. because I reckon that's the way forward.. it's the men in their fifties without pensions who don't own property that want to attach themselves to a woman with their list of man baby conditions. I don't know about you but I've had my children, I don't need another giant one living in my house! Enjoy yourself, your life and your independence, you've earned it...
They can miss me with their fake concerns lol.
The road:
The number of times men think women will change their minds.
My only concern is he texted me on my regular phone number. I do have a gigantic internet footprint from the 90s. I shit-talked him back then blocked.