It's not some, all of them think like this. When you allow their disrespect and crap they make themselves believe that you like it while in reality a woman who sticks around thinks that if she give him heaps of chances he will stop or they don't want to end up alone and this scrote is all she can get,
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My ex wound up being like this. I told him that behavior would break us up. He called my bluff. I left. He was devastated. Absurd.
I remember the smirk on his face when he would accuse me of cheating on him, telling me everyone thinks I'm cheating on him, obviously I left the house for 30 min to get groceries (and...came back with groceries) so OBVIOUSLY I AM CHEATING ON HIM. That smirk, man, I realized, this is a game to him. He thinks he's doing some strategy thing to get me to fall on my knees with my mouth open to "prove" myself. Pathetic.
He had really, whole-heartedly convinced himself that women LOVE to be treated like shit. Despite being told, and shown, that no, plenty of us do not.
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They really aren't worth the effort.
"I'm not an abuser if I convince myself that the person I love hurting secretly likes what I do! it's a convenient truth that exists to free me of any consequences, but I didn't make it up at all, of course I will never tell my partner about it because she would hate having to be exposed like that :'("
“I constantly love playing games with her” = normalized sociopathy. Always projecting.
All women love this? Is he stupid?
Narcissists and Sociopaths know what they're doing they just don't care. Abusers put on an act and it's all a game. They can turn that behavior off the minute a cop shows up. What they're doing is criminal behavior and they should be Locked up for coercive control.
No, I dont think ALL men do this. Shit ones do. Granted, there are a lot of shit ones.
Women love this, but he seems to not be able to keep them with how he keeps saying "them" instead of "my gf".
I know a guy like this. He only behaves like it when his partner is present. When she isn’t, he’s otherwise normal.
Fucking sociopath.
He probably has at least one post complaining that women with BPD are mean because "they push and pull."
I only needed one lesson in a loser like this to understand the game. Next one gets a fist in his mouth and a knee in his balls. But sure bro, keep playing.
“All men do this.”
None of my exes nor my current husband had ever done this kind of dumb mind games.
They must match perfectly for him to do those stupid abusive things and for her to stay.
Re: I remove what I say, but seriously how can you be with a man that has such a dark mentality? The standards are ... nvm there's none.