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A few weeks ago my close friend confided that this guy (aka LVM) who is part of my mutual friend (friend A) group dm’d her privately through their company chat thread for mundane conversation. A got annoyed because these conversations are highly unprofessional because her managers can see it. A also knows that he seeing someone so A finds it strange that LVM keeps talking to her about personal stuff despite only having met once. Right around this time, he and his gf (friend B) become social media official.
Now, it’s been a week since they (LVM and B) became official, and nobody said anything to their posts or congratulated them. It’s because everyone knew and they were pretty horrible at keeping it a secret. As a result, they announced their union on our main chat server. This is where things started to unfold. A few months back, B asked another girl (friend C) if she had any feelings for LVM and by this time LVM and B were seeing each other. C naïvely told B that she does have feelings for LVM. Things got weird from then on as LVM and B were frequently hanging out with C doing couple shit. At some point, C asked if theres something she should know about them because she doesn’t like to be third wheel. B denied all allegations of them dating. When LVM and B announced their union, C was upset and confronted them about it and how she doesn’t like to be used. B got defensive and said that it wasn’t B’s business to know and that why should she tell C? B also made this scathing remark about how she knew that C liked LVM and how B would gladly back off at the moment if C had said something (wtf right?). All of this ended up with B and LVM leaving the chat and unfollowing everyone on social media.
Upon their departure, a few girls (let’s call them D and E) were talking about how LVM isn’t a good person. We agree that B is wearing those rose coloured glasses to realize that he’s no good for her. Another friend, D feels like it’s her fault since B blames her for LVM and B’s fallout. Apparently, D accidentally caught B and LVM together at his place and B made D keep this a secret, so she was first to know and she doesn’t want to bare this burden.
As for E, she flat out told me that LVM and B are not good for each other and I agreed. I also told E that LVM has also been contacting with my friend A during that time that LVM and B were together. E thinks that I should tell B, but I don’t want to be cussed out by both A and B. D also knows about this too since A and told D and me at the same time. However, A and I are closer and she ended up telling me more information about how inappropriate the situation is.
I feel like all girls should have a sit down and talk about this, but that’s not possible lol idk
Idk what to do. B and I aren’t close friends. In fact, we don’t really get along, but I know all this information.
Side note: I just realized that this is like the women’s network where girls are like coming together to snitch on an LVM.
Back away from all of this and also get new friends.
Sorry to be blunt, but I think you might be too immersed to see how much of a trashbag this whole situation is.
Way too much drama for fully grown adults. Don’t say shit. B probably wont listen anyway because she’s dickmatized,
Reading this was a headfuck, I struggled to follow. Don’t bother with these people sis, they’re just going to drag you down to their level. Also, this is not a scrotation report. A scrotation is a group of men you are dating on rotation. Therefore, a report on your scrotation is like a field report on how your multi-dating experience is going.
Man I was gonna ask how old all these people are but tbh, I was in a similar situation with coworkers who were all 30+. I was vetting someone who was secretly dating a manager, let me tell you when people say if you're confused about a guy's intentions you better run cause nothing good is gonna come out it! I'll be honest, if you're not directly involved the drama can be entertaining but also exhausting. I would find a new social circle before you get dragged deep into this high school musical shit show.
lol. You couldn’t pay me to invest this much in so much collective low value work behaviour. Stop. Just work.
if i were you, i would say my piece about the LVM to B, without implicating A, then cut ties with them both. savannah made a great point about this in one of the podcast eps because she was in a similar situation in the past but she told the scrote's girlfriend about it. given that the person involved is someone you know personally, B can't accuse you in the future of never letting her know about anything.
I wouldn't say anything at all to B and watch the shitshow unfold from afar. It sucks cause we want to warn women but most of them are pickmes.(also B telling C "why didn't you say something?" When C DID infact say something, is narc gaslighting. That alone, I honestly assume B is a shitty person and deserves what's coming ahead) I warned a coworker about a guy she wasn't even interested in, and she went all CoolGirl men good women bad on me. Apparently I'm competition to her, and she'll take any attention she can get, even from uggos with bad intentions.
B likes and is dating this guy, so it will definitely backfire. She'll think you're trying to split them up and steal her man 🙄 just like my coworker thought i wanted to steal her (ugly, old, fat, short) male attention.