50/50 guy showing his true colours.

Yup, you're describing the male of today's mentality to a 'T'.

My boyfriend's cousin told him that he only proposed to his girlfriend after he realized that his half of bills were no longer going to be paid in the event that they broke up. Mind you, this was three months before the wedding.

They were together for two years and he told her he wouldn't propose unless they moved in together and were doing so for a year. They did, then at the nearly three year mark, she asked what they were doing because she wanted to be married at that point. He continued his reasoning to my boyfriend, "I kind of had to propose at that point, but I really wanted to stay just living together longer".

I looked at my boyfriend and was like, "So, your cousin just admitted to you that he didn't propose because he loves Deena, it's because of bills. Therefore, he gave her a Shut Up Ring".

My boyfriend got so mad at me! He insisted, that both of them love each other very much and that was "offensive!", "He did what was best and wanted to see if they were compatible living together before marriage!"

Offensive? I called the situation for what it was; that's realistic. The second statement I clued him in that the only "compatibility" was seeing that she would cooperate with his demands while getting 50% of his bills paid.

Lastly, I thanked him for telling me what his cousin did. Then I told him that I don't respond to ultimatums and if it ever got to where we were discussing marriage and he did what his cousin did, don't count on me staying.

Silence.

Yikes. Your bf getting mad at you for what you said is a red flag because men are only as good as their shittiest friend. You were right with what you said to him.

Everything you said! I'm becoming more and more convinced that Reddit is comprised of guys who are just shacking up with their girlfriends. The basic summary is:

Hurr durr, we're living together! But she isn't cooking, I want half of my bills paid! Did I mention we've been together 4+ years, she gained weight, and it's hindering my sexual attraction for her? She wants to get married, but I think we need to address these things!

All of this forever reinforces why FDS is so vital. The case study of the tactics they use, then what they've wooed their girlfriend into putting up with.

The 50/50 scrote was so used to his mommy cooking, cleaning, and everything else for him that he's looking for that in a romantic relationship. But when mommy nagged, he wasn't singing her praises either.

More like “Women don’t want to be replaced when they build men up”

Never build a man up, you’re just grooming him for another woman.

Also, just because you're having sex with a guy doesn't mean he respects you.

Well he was moaning that he doesn't like paying her half of the rent but even during covid she helped him financially when he was jobless and paid the rent for over 3 months so that he can has room to breathe and pay off his debts and now that she's in a pickle he's acting like he's being taken advantage of and ppl were roasting his ass, he didn't expect that. He probably wished the red pill tards would come to his rescue. even Dudes called him an A hole. She only asked for one month so that she can look for a new job quick and he thinks she should have used her savings money instead.

Maybe there is a deleted post section on reddit.

I hope he was begging you to stay as you walked away. The sound of your heels walking away is the only thing that bothers men. At least gold diggers make the perfect housewife and female cuckhold to obtain that gold while male parasites do nothing but take and never give.

Mens attitude is the reason why I don’t do 50/50.