He wasn’t reluctant when she was spending money on him or when he asked to cover the rent for 2 months when he was financially struggling , but now that she asked for his help until she gets a new job becomes a petty child whining about how unfair it is for him.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/12bbjb1/aita_for_being_reluctant_to_cover_my_gfs_half_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
Classic male behaviour: I'll gobble up whatever benefits you offer me and if you need help I'm gonna bail and tell you you're a gold digger and/or insecure.
Life is never going to be truely 50/50. women carry 100% of the pregnancy. Someone gets ill, the other person is going to have to do everything else. You need a partner that gives all.
Wow, I just looked at his post history -- there is a slightly earlier post along the same lines, only EVEN WORSE if you can imagine such a thing. He's a raging, flaming AH, and the fact that even Reddit recognizes it gives me a shred of hope for the world!
Another post by him. What a great lesson on what not to do!
Damn he even deleted his Reddit account! Lmaooooo. Love this! Shame! Shame! Shame!
He got roasted so badly on Reddit. It gives me hope. Lol he couldn’t handle the heat, so he deleted the post before I could even read it. How to see the original post even though it was deleted?
Ugh, I read this one.
Again, why, oh why on this planet are women doing this to themselves???
Stop living with a guy who you are dating. STOP. This is not love, it's convenient destruction. These dipshits invade your space, cost you emotionally and financially, talk shit about your looks and personality when you "aren't looking as good as before/doing the same things", the list goes on and on.
Describes my ex. I wasted 6 years of my life because of him. I financially supported him for the first 5 years, then when COVID hit and I lost my job, I needed help for the first time ever, and he legit called me a gold digger. After financially supporting him for 5 years!!
Ew.
That girlfriend of his has made a lot of mistakes tho… I feel bad for her. She’s given so much to a guy who will never give anything to her.
If I were a man in my 30s who needed to be supported by a woman in her 20s, I would kill myself. I would literally jump out a window from pure shame before I allowed this to happen.
I don't understand why this man seems to feel no shame at all.
Is there a way to make the link clickable? It also won’t let me copy paste it
yes, Nigel. YOU are the a**hole.