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I have seen it many times now, women will come to the forum asking for advice that could’ve been solved in under a minute.
I’m not against asking for advice on the forum, but it’s like half of you don’t stop and reflect on what you wrote or even go through the FDS subreddit.
You’re not as important to him as you think you are.
Remember this:
We live in a society that celebrates male mediocrity.
A lot of men see us as "side characters" in their lives.
A piece of writing I saved from Reddit:
Something I have had to learn the hard way is that men will never put up with the same shit they put us through. I have stayed with men who consistently disrespected me so long as they “apologized,” only for them to cut me off entirely because of a minor issue on my part. They don’t show us forgiveness, because we aren’t important to them. They don’t value connections with us; they value themselves and their own pleasure. We continue to fall for the idea that forgiveness builds relationships when men are simply not acting from the same place, and this is what allows them to continue to exploit us.
It’s a hard lesson for many women to understand.
Men are not trained to be nice or accommodating like women are. Women are taught that If they sacrifice themselves or accommodate others they'll be rewarded in life. The reward will never come only madness lol. Learn to be selfish in life... it's the best thing you can do for yourself. What's the point of being alive If you are not gonna seek pleasure? Enjoy it all.
Here! Here! I learned in therapy froma trauma therapist in about 6 years ago that forgivness is not a concept that I have to ever grant anyone and that releasing resentment and putting the onus for their bad behavior back on the perpetrator is the only way to go.
Not forgiving any dumbass man and not forgetting.
Forgiveness belongs to myself. I can release resentment for their behavior and still remember that the behavior is an uneahlthy trait that I never want to invite in my life again.
This is correct. Even the best, nicest most high value man doesn't really see his wife as more than useful accessory.
The problem with the manoids is that they are so stingy but gladly pay more to take revenge on you or be generous with the hope they get sex.
Just look at the Coffee date manoids they think this method weeds out the gold digger while these losers have no gold to dig,
They want to be cheap and convenient for themselves but expect you to give it their all.
They live by the sword but won't die by the sword because when they do something wrong they need to be forgiven, even women say that I shouldn't cut men off when they make a mistake but I don't listen to that.
The 3 unforgivable sins are making me angry, hurt my feelings or you embarrassed me.
Those are instant goodbye's. yet I'm told I need to communicate.
No, Men claim they are natural leaders and rational thinkers so let them figure out what they did wrong.