You are not important to men.

I have seen it many times now, women will come to the forum asking for advice that could’ve been solved in under a minute. 

I’m not against asking for advice on the forum, but it’s like half of you don’t stop and reflect on what you wrote or even go through the FDS subreddit.

You’re not as important to him as you think you are. 

Remember this:

• We live in a society that celebrates male mediocrity. 

• A lot of men see us as "side characters" in their lives.

  
  

A piece of writing I saved from Reddit:

Something I have had to learn the hard way is that men will never put up with the same shit they put us through. I have stayed with men who consistently disrespected me so long as they “apologized,” only for them to cut me off entirely because of a minor issue on my part. They don’t show us forgiveness, because we aren’t important to them. They don’t value connections with us; they value themselves and their own pleasure. We continue to fall for the idea that forgiveness builds relationships when men are simply not acting from the same place, and this is what allows them to continue to exploit us.

It’s a hard lesson for many women to understand.