Why do men like to 'humble' you?

Because they know confident women won't put up with their shit.

Men want to be needed. If you're a confident and secure woman with her own career, what do you need them for? You don't. So they'll try to bring you down.

If a woman is confident and knows she is attractive, she won’t have doubts about being “good enough” and she will know she has options. What happens if a woman has options? LV behavior won’t be tolerated.

With humble they want you to be cooperative so that they can stir you in the direction they want. remember a man who honors and respect you would never try to make you act different. ever.

They accept you for who you are or they leave you alone. It's either one of the two.

1. They want to have power over women, confident woman who is secure in herself cannot be manipulated or controlled. Just seeing a woman like this makes them feel irrelevant.

2. They're insecure themselves so seeing someone, anyone really being confident and happy with themselves triggers them so much that they instantly need to bring that person down so they will feel better about themselves.

3. It's just misogyny. They think a woman "should" be humble and feel flattered when a man compliments her. They don't want women to be aware of their own worth and beauty.

Good job on self improvement! Keep making scrotes mad lol

because they hate women, and they love humiliating us. it's all about domination. they know they can manipulate women who are insecure. they think we are as desperate for male approval as men are desperate for sex. and you know what? in many cases, they are not wrong... we are indoctrinated into craving male attention and male approval. if a guy "humbles" me, it makes me insecure and therefore an easy target for their depravity.

Because they know the only way they have a shot with you is if you don't know your worth. Insecure men with nothing to offer KNOW THIS.

Further, they don't know how to relate to women unless they're controlling us, because they know we won't stick around - unless they cut our wings.

Tale as old as time. I'm turning 40 soon and can tell you men have been negging me and trying to destroy my self-esteem since college.

Abuse is the only way a lot of men know how to get a woman. God forbid they work on themselves and meet us on our level.

I agree with what the other commenters have said. Men hate us and want to control us.

I‘Il leave you with this anecdote:

Several years ago, I went on a first date with a scrote who made it clear, throughout the date, that he wanted me for sex only.

Out of nowhere, he started comparing me to Heidi Klum, saying I was not as good-looking as she was. 🚩 At the time, I thought I was attractive (still do) and told him, off-handedly, that I thought I was better-looking than Heidi Klum. It wasn’t even a question in my mind—I just blurted it out.

You should have seen the look on this scrote’s face. He stared at me like he’d seen an alien. Clearly, he‘d never encountered a woman with my level of self-esteem.

Scrotes will neg us because they want to destroy our confidence so we’ll have sex with them. Simple as that.

I've been seeing that on instagram a lot where scrote men commenting state that they think women should be more "humble" like our mothers were for example: settling down with less than ideal husbands/our fathers may have been. Like why would I willingly give into a man's dreams of being a scrote/low performing father and husband to accomplish his goal and dream of one day having his own family when my dream is to have a husband that meets my standards and is very much aligns to my own goals? The man needs a woman to start a family. Woman needs money (which men usually get to have) to survive but once we check that off our list and make our own money... like why tf would I humble myself if I can just go pick up a job? Like what do I get out of fulfilling a man's dream of starting a family and ignoring what I want? Misery? Headaches? Abuse?

Because their self-esteem is as big as their tiny limp 🍆

LVM scrote tactics.

These people are deeply insecure and misogynistic. It's absurd and we should not have to put up with this bs.

There is this consensus online that people who think they are pretty are arrogant and quite frankly I think this is the weakest take ever. It tells you way more about who these people are than about "arrogance". I have seen TikToks with the sound/vibe you describe and I never think "Omg, so full of themselves!" I dont give a shit, let people feel themselves. Its much better than the opposite. These people will ALWAYS exist, they cant let go of the programming that tells them, knowing you are great --> arrogance.

And men are just another layer. They cant stand hot confident women. You are their enemy #1. A man who glorifies the way women were in the past, has no idea who women are and cant cope with the fact that he cant force women to be with him anymore. Modern woman arent the problem, its confident ones. I will bet you a million bucks this man would date you if he got the chance. Thats what he cant cope with.

In conclusion, if you upset loser men, you are definitely doing something right <3

I’ve frequented the manosphere long enough that I know this is how they think:

“Ugh, look at this b**ch. She thinks she’s a 10 when she’s a 5 at best [meanwhile he is a neckbeard with adult acne]. Because she has such an over inflated ego, she rejects nice guys like me. I am going to bring her down a peg so that she humbles herself and dates less attractive men like me. She probably only wants male models”