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By gay friends I mean male gays, not lesbians.
We know women who only have male friends are pickmes, but what about those women who have more gay male friends and barely have any female friends at all?
It feels icky and odd to me. Some of these women will talk about how gay men are more honest and truthful as friends than women.
Gay men are extremely misogynists, yet women like to deny this all the time. The nasty, vile shit I read gay men write about women on subreddits is disturbing.
I hate interacting with them in person. They emit such negative energy that I don’t want to be around them.
I find it annoying that women tend to give homo males access to their female circles and treat them as some kind of special magical type of men because they simply happen to like dick. It screams pickme to me. (I believe It comes from the desire to have a male presence. Subconsciously these women crave male validation, they put men on pedestals and view men's attention as something valuable. Doesn't matter if the man was straight or not. It's still a man. And the pickme women crave male company/opinion)
Now speaking for myself, I wouldn't have male friends, whether straight or homo. Men are men. They all have the same misogynistic conditioning and entitlement when it comes to women. They both hate on and objectify women, the only difference is that straight dudes objectify us sexually, while the homo ones objectify us non sexually, afterall they use women as baby birthing machines and as beards. And aside from using women for biological labor, they also use us for emotional labor.
They are vile nasty little shits and they are jealous of women.
And like some FDS lady here said before: They have no use for us "sexually" thus they have less reasons to hide their hatred toward us.
I haven't encountered any women like this myself but IMO any woman who only has male friends (regardless of whether they're gay or straight) is a pick me (the Not-Like-Other-Girls version).
I've never met any such women. Maybe they are party animals who have burned all their female relationships?
I never vibed with them due to their over the top feminine persona. I consider myself a very feminine woman but a lot of them come off like a stereotypical mean girl clique from an early 2000s movie. It felt like I was interacting with a 2d character istead of a genuine human with their own personality, it gave me the ick on a deep level.
I think pick mes and gay men go together because their #1 topic of discussion is men and sex with men.
Many gay men do not act like this, but those are the ones who you wouldnt immediately assume about. They dont lead with their sexuality and they dont seek out female friends to live vicariously through, so their circle (and personality) is more balanced.
I think having more gay, male friends than would be statistically likely, having only gay male friends (and no female friends) and specifically seeking out gay men as friends because they are gay is sketchy and honestly kind of strange. As the other poster said, it gives me pick-me and "not like other girls"-vibes at best. Some women also have some kind of gross, fanfiction/anime-induced(?) sexual fetish for gay men/gay couples and seek them out specifically and that's even more weird.
I am close friends with one of my cousins and his husband. I don't know if that even counts because they are family and I am definitely not friends with them because they are gay but because they are decent, HV people and we have a lot of interests in common and if they happened to be a straight couple instead we would be friends, too. They also absolutely do not match the "catty, loud party-gay" stereotype.
This just reminded me about a free YouTube movie called GBF. I'm gonna go see it now haha