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We've all seen this annoying youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM which only serves to confirm men will have sex with any women. Why does anyone need to confirm this? It's basic knowledge.
We've all seen this often repeated annoying tinder statistic: “An experiment with Tinder found that 'the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men."
It serves to shame women for their high standards. See? Men give everyone a chance. Women, lower your standards.
But no one has ever asked what men are vetting for, if they are vetting for anything at all.
Men are vetting for sex. To have sex, a woman only need to have a vagina, or a hole for men to fuck. And men don't have to care about the person to whom the hole is attached to, or the history that the hole is attached to.
The bottom 22% of women are the pickmes, low self esteem, the women who have been hurt badly by other men and don't know what being treated like a normal human being is like any more. Scrotes pray on these women.
The top 20% of men are attractive, have resources. The top relationship issue, what couples fight over is money.
Most men would be shit fathers. Why should a woman choose a shit man to be a father? Why does a man deserve a chance to pass on his DNA and genes?
Women work and do majority of household tasks. https://news.gallup.com/poll/283979/women-handle-main-household-tasks.aspx Yes, women should lower standards and choose men who don't even pick up the slack as partners. Men don't even have to vet for this because most women will automatically take over all the chores out of responsibility and the fact that the man isn't doing it on his own.
What LVM are vetting for: A woman with emotional issues, high desperation, low confidence, younger than their age, virginity, naivety, a "hot" body, frequent sex, wants to pleasure them during sex, and has low standards. Goal is to get sex from a woman with a high tolerance for disrespect and "knows her place".
what HVM are vetting for: A woman with her own interests, hobbies and life, indepedance, emotional stability, ability to stand up for herself, can stand on her own two feet, frequent sex, a woman who wants pleasure during sex and interesting personality.
Definitely. They are looking for signs you will put out.
This is why back when I was on OLD (off it now, thankfully) I've always next'd any profiles that had a hint of hookup/fwb culture. Some apps will have an option to select what you're looking for: relationship, marriage, hookup etc which make it obvious. Sometimes it's just the sleazy, low effort profile. Even if he claims he's looking for long term with *you*, the fact that he was open to hookups is a strong red flag. At best he's community dick, at worst you're getting a self loathing incel who wanted to be community dick and never had the looks for it. No thanks.
So the solution is just to have money?
Still get hit on by poor people
As you rightly said, men sleep with anything. They mostly vet when they are looking for long term commitment (vetting is how much bs she can put up with / submissiveness and like a car will the looks of her make their friends envious, also will my family approve and will she produce quality offsprings). All very technical (dehumanising).
I personally don’t practice casual sex or one night stands but if I were to, then it seems obvious I would want a gorgeous tall well hung hunk (why bother otherwise if sex is all you want?). Whereas if vetting for a relationship physical attractiveness is only one of many other factors so it could potentially be a bit more flex vs. a caring personality, a secure career, good values etc.
So the fundamental problem with those men and their stupid 80% - 20% is that they are comparing apples and pears. They mean dating as getting laid, we mean dating as looking for a relationship. They don’t want to admit it because it would be them admitting they only see women as sex object serving their immediate needs. The only solution is not for us to enter a discussion with their self serving skewed stats, is to just not give them sex until they prove they are genuinely interested in a relationship with us.
This is why it's important to make them wait for sex. My best friend has waited 7 years into a relationship before having sex with her bf. That man is truly HV. He is so caring, not only towards her but towards her friends. At first she claimed religion as to why she did not want to have extra marital sex. Physically, my friend is average looking on the plump side, she is beautiful, intriguingly intelligent and talented. Her BF is a young version of Ben Affleck, very sweet and generous, and worked so hard so they could have everything they wanted: house, car, treats her like a princess. He loves her and it's not just about looks. He actually sees all the other awesome things about her. She is so much more. With a LVM, a wonderful woman doesn't get the chance to be more than her body and her vagina. They've been together 10 years and going real strong ever since. He offers because it gives him pleasure, I can see and she loves to be cared for and pampered. He never ever shamed her for being the way she is. She doesn't accept until he does things the way she likes and he's smart enough to understand that she truly wants him to be the absolute best version of himself. To a LV person she would appear as extremely high maintenance but not too a person that wants the absolute best for themselves and for her. PS: she's a psychology major.
Studying mating rituals in the animal kingdom; and of course the best males win the right to reproduce. Somehow in humans, everything within the natural order of things have reversed. It’s insane. Women should not be standing in line competing with each other for a chance to be with a chump. How the F did this happen? Women are the ones chosen to decide whose genes get to be passed on to the next generation. And for women who want to be child free or don’t want additional children, we still get to choose who the best partner will be for pairing up with. We need to educate pick me women in a strong aggressive way, rise up in our careers, buy property, and take up positions of power and leadership.
when women have high standards we are shallow if men do it, it's because they have standards and dignity.
the fucken entitlement.