Watching women date LVMs is one of the hardest parts of being in my late 20s

I noticed there's 4 types of women I come across:

Some women I know are in the early stages of dating - enthusiastically accepting walk "dates" followed by movie dates or some other low effort excuse for a date. They use OLD like hinge. They are shocked when they get ghosted.

Other women are dating a dusty asshole of a man who is clearly immature but she hopes he will change. He's always older than her but she is dating him because "the older guys are more mature". She plans on buying a house with him and pays his rent/does all the cooking and cleaning/emotional labour etc. she cooks meals for him every day - unless she's not around , then he cooks for himself. Because god forbid he ever cooks or does anything for HER. She's waiting for that ring 💍 that he will probably get cheap or secondhand when he's finally tired of her asking wheres the ring ?

And then there's the worst ones, the ones beyond saving. Been engaged for 10+ years, or it took that long to get a ring. The male fiance is clearly settling and gave a shut up ring. She complains that he doesn't help with the unplanned child, does all the housework and lost her career. She jokes around that her husband never does the cooking, unless she is not there, like it's funny. She sounds like he's an extra child to care for. He's utterly useless and focuses on his job.

There's also the girl who is single but craves love and affection. She has low self esteem and needs a man to prove she's worthy of love. She frequently goes to the gym, hoping that if she loses weight and has a good body more men will see her as worthy of love. She is terrified of being single forever. Due to loneliness she tends to overshare and is anxious. May have been in a long term relationship or marriage but is recently separated, but eager to replace their ex.

I used to be the first and second one, so I can't entirely blame them. The SUB PAR SHIT that women tolerate is unbelievable. And it's always some thing they're aware of. They KNOW it's bad and that's why they're complaining. But they won't leave and the two main reasons are 1. They don't want to be alone by the time there 30 (a weird milestone woman create for themselves) and 2. They are financially dependent on the man. I also think it is low key 3. They don't believe they deserve better / don't believe there is anyone better out there.

Where is the 5th type of woman, the one with self respect and loves herself, is independent and strong who takes no bullshit? I am yet to meet any!

Being alone is SO much better than dating a LVM. They do not give, they only take. They use women and the only reason they ever leave is when they found another woman /are caught cheating.

Am I the only one who finds this hard? It's so hard not to say anything. Womens beliefs about relationships are in the toilet 🚽. They think it's "wild" to not have moved in with your fiancé - because their dusty bf moved in with them ! And totally not for free labour, it's because he loves them 🫣 I hate to break it to you girls, but he's using you because he's a low value man.