I was lurking on kink subreddit because I was curious about the depravity some men secretly have and I’m very disturbed.
CNC (consensual non consent or ‘rape play’) ends up being immaculately dangerous for women I think. Because now men use this kink to claim women really want to get raped or they can pretend like they were just having kinky sex when abusing a woman.
I don’t know. For some reason, this story just doesn’t add up or make sense to me. I do not trust this narrative whatsoever. it left a horrible taste in my mouth. Also the way he talks about her and women in general feels degrading.
Women have to live in fear of being actually raped far more than men have to live with the fear of being falsely accused.
He's just DARVO'd the situation. I highly doubt his account of what happened between him and the ex... it was bad enough she went through the horror show of dealing with the cops. Doubt that was an elaborate revenge attempt like he insinuates. He's now gonna use this as his sob story to attract and hook LVW to abuse. Dear god
"How do I find a new loving partner who will allow me to physically abuse her, sexually degrade her, and treat her like I hate her guts even as I simulate raping her?" The absolute audacity of this pornsick scrote. His fantasy is to rape women, so I guess he learned what happens to men who rape women (they get reported to the police and have a permanent criminal record of having been charged with rape).
When I was younger, I swallowed the lie that BDSM and abuse fantasies are a legitimate "kink" and not self-harming attempts at processing and dealing with trauma. I know better now. Women who seek this out need therapy, not a "loving" man to treat them like a cum receptacle while demanding that she treat him as if he is a caring HVM who is good to her. "I will treat you like I hate you and you must treat me like I have given you the world," smirks the limp dick scrote who can only get off by hurting other people but insists he's morally better than you because their mental illness benefits him personally.
I cannot stand what porn has done to relationships, and how low women's standards have sunk. We must do better for ourselves, and each other. Just say no to sadism apologists. It is not and can never be part of a healthy sexual relationship, queens. Don't do it, and don't let any man tell you that it's normal or acceptable to be his punching bag.
Honestly, at this point I don't believe anything, that is written on reddit, with rare exceptions.
His fanfic about what allegedly happened is also so vomit inducing: "sHe kEpT bEgGiNg FoR mUh Kok". Don't you just feel the trauma? 🤡
Whether this story is true or not, I feel zero sympathy for men who get off of "fake" abusing women. You're scared? Good! Very good! Men aren't scared enough.
This man has convinced himself that what happened was asked for by the victim. It was so traumatic for her she talked about it with her therapist who said you absolutely were r4ped by this man and I am required by law to report it. The man in question then saw HIMSELF as a victim and went to r3ddit for support. AND he is out telling other women she's crazy and don't worry about my charge she loved it and is just confused, etc.
His last sentence says it all.
Can someone respond to this POS?