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For Christ’s sake, stop texting me. I hate long drawn out text conversations. I’m busy. I’m working. I’m reading. Walking the dogs. Living my life. I’m not on my phone
I was told women were the stereotypical “text all day everyday”, “head stuck in their phones”, “constantly need attention” types.
In my experience, men are BILLIONS times worse! SO MUCH WORSE! AGH!
Do you ladies experience this? The absolute CONSTANT need for CONSTANT contact. The desperate pull for CONSTANT attention. Like a 3-year-old who can’t stand his mom looking out the window instead of at him.
These men are solidly middle-aged. Is this what happens to them? They spent their teens and 20s glued to their video games, and then in their 30s and 40s their gamer bros move on and have families, and the leftovers are suddenly alone in the world and panicking about it?? And need women to be the end-all, be-all, center of their universe and cater to them, mommy mcbangmaid style?!
I’M SO ANNOYED!
Everything men accuse women of is projection
When I was in my late 30's I had one date with a man who was 50. He acted like this. If I didn't text back within 15 minutes he'd text, "Ok......." or "???"
I tried to talk to him about it but it didn't get better before the second date, so he got blocked. I couldn't believe that a man at his age acted like that.
Yes to all of this. Men are a nightmare. The majority of them are truly very very needy. I’ve experienced it too; men telling me I take too long to respond or always want to know what I’m doing. All of this when I used to chat with men. Ugh. Never again. It’s aggravating.
You’re so right; they spend their youth wasting time doing useless things then when their friends die from drug overdoses or alcoholism, or they move for work or to the suburbs with the families they create, these needy, lonely men are left alone and realise they’re not invincible so they hurry to cling to the nearest woman they can find.
I've literally never experienced this. The only men I attract are avoidants who barely want to keep in contact with me at all lol
I've had similar experiences too. Back in my pickme days when I used to be foolish enough to think that I had platonic friendships with scrotes, I noticed these scrotes were pretty much ALWAYS available to talk to at literally any given time, and meanwhile, my females friends were always busy living their lives with the exception of one toxic female friend who was also as clingy as these men. Unfortunately both she and these scrotes brainwashed me into thinking being available for people on demand 24/7 was "normal" and that people having lives meant that they didn't care about me. It resulted me losing a lot of healthy friendships bc my dumbass was out here believing them. Thankfully i've taken the time to unlearn this brainwashing and it's been so freeing to just focus on having a life where I prioritize myself and my hobbies and having friendships with people who do the same. All of this is to say, cut people who are clingy and expect you to talk to them 24/7 off because not only is their behavior toxic, but they PROBABLY WILL try to condition you into thinking their behavior is "normal" and that distance/having boundaries is a bad thing which will only further isolate you and make it easier for them to abuse you!! Don't learn the hard way like i did.
Yeah I frequently have experience it and then the minute you slightly open up to them, these are the first to lose interest and ghost you. It makes dating infuriating.