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Went on a date on Sunday and within the first 10 minutes he proceeds to tell me about how his mom is a prostitute, his dad was her pimp, all about his various mental illnesses, and that he has a criminal record for publicly masturbating on the subway.
While I am glad that he was at least upfront with all this, I genuinely am losing hope that normal men exist still!
"he has a criminal record for publicly masturbating on the subway."
Never in my entire life have I heard of a woman who masturbated on public transit, a park or in front of school children. Dear fucking god.
Obviously, this man is bottom of the barrel. Am I correct in thinking you met him online?
Unlike many other FDSers, I'm not dead-set against meeting men from OLD. But if you met this man on OLD, I recommend vetting harder before meeting next time. I feel like there had to have been giveaways in his profile and/or messages that indicated a subpar upbringing.
Trauma dumping on the first date. Nice. Yet another man who thinks women are there to be their personal therapists.
Ugh, what a horrible horrible background for a person to have!
I'm glad he revealed all of that so quickly so you can do what's needed to be done.
Stay safe, sis. And hope you get amazing dates in the future.
And this is why we do the pre-date phone call.
Damn!
I can’t believe he said all this on a first date!
sorry that happened to you, but at least you know to never see him again!
Did you vet him before going on a date? That’s very scary for you. . Please be careful and try to vet as much as you can on text, FaceTime if you want or on the phone before a date in person. God, I just can’t ….