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It's a vetting thing: don't even pretend to grab your wallet when the bill comes. Ignore it and carry on with the date. This also will let a LVM know that you're used to having a man pay for the dates and sets a bar that you fully expect him to take care of it. LVM right now are talking more about how women should at least do a wallet grab and it's his shit test to see if you have pickme behavior. When lvm see that you don't wallet grab or offer to pay (etc) they will stop wasting your time.
Don't worry about the trash taking itself out. A hvm won't be scared to invest into what it takes to impress and Date you properly
Back in the day, I'd do the wallet grab or offer to split the check maybe after 3 dates. That was until I dated man who was outright offended that I even offered, and told me to relax and that he would always be the one to pay. Men know. Good men find pleasure in grabbing the check.
This is so hard to do but so true! Takes a lot of deprogramming.
I never carry my wallet with me or any cards at all ☺️ I also always excuse myself to the ladies room when it’s time for the check and they usually take care of it when I’m not on the table so when I’m back it’s all done.