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I live with my mother, as she went through some trauma a few years ago and asked me to be with her. We bought a house together in a totally new area to get her away from triggers.
One of the things she asked me to do is to stay away from a close-ish big city. She's terrified that I'll be hurt if I go there. This isn't a problem for me. I have everything I need in the surrounding area, and I spent most of my life in big cities. I'm over them at this point. Mom's getting the help she needs. In the meantime, I'm not going to aggravate her mental state by going against her wishes.
Well the new friends I've made in the area occasionally want me to join them in the city. I always decline and state my reasons. Three different friends now have told me that all my mom needs is to get laid! That all her problems will go away if she finds a man to fool around with!
Mom is similar to me, she hasn't had a man in nearly 20 years because they're mostly terrible. She's thriving financially because of it, and before the incident that traumatized her, her mental health was on point. I've told all this to the pickmes every time they disgustingly recommend "dick" as some cure-all but they still insist that's all she needs.
These are some of the most misogynistic things I've ever heard. I've heard the same things from crusty scrotes, that a sad or angry woman just needs a good f*ck. I hate how it's so difficult to find non-brainwashed women in the world.
Telling anyone "they just need to get laid" when they express their concerns is incredibly offensive. I agree that these friends sound like pick mes. Let's be honest, a man is more likely to ADD to a woman's problems (unless he's high value) than to make her problems go away.
My friend was like this when I was going through a terrible terrible break up. This is the most toxic advice from fellow women to anoter (hurt) women. It will only hurt you more. Only hurt women give this toxic advice.
Yeah I really don't get the logic behind " you just need to get laid". Like so many women who've been physically and emotionally abused still give you s*it advice like this. i just don't get it. Did they not learn their lesson?