i hate when there's a post about men and women have to derail and gaslights another woman's experience. they typcially always brag aba our having a good father, how they've never been done wrong by a man they've dated or that they have one in general, and how they've always had high standards and they have so many options. It just derails the conversation and no one asked. It's not our fault that a lot of us had to learn the hard way. I'm not saying this with a jelaous intent but it's genuinely annoying.
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I always think it’s cope. If their guy was so great you wouldn’t need to shout about it so much. It’s like people who post constant social media cutesy couple picks. It’s easier than dealing with the truth…
“Not my Nigel” is the phrase that comes to mind 😂 it’s common in most radfem circles, when libfems say that ONE unicorn man is so special that he belies the horror stories of men in general
Ah yes, the copes of certain overly-trusting women who haven’t looked through their husband’s phones yet. 🙄
I don’t think I’ve experienced that but I can tell you that I’ve had friends get really mad at me when I make some comment about how their kids dad is a good dad after all their social media posts are all about how their kids dad is a good dad, and that’s all I hear from them until they break up. If all you’re going to do is publish little blurbs about how wonderful he is please don’t get mad at your friends when they say things like “wow that’s surprising. I thought he was a better dad than that.”Don’t come at me with “oh he is, is he??” Because my response to that will be “well according to your Facebook he is.” 🤷🏻♀️
Like I don’t know, you want to live a fake life don’t get mad at me if I believe your fake life is real yes he’s an asshole and I will definitely be on your side if he’s the asshole, but if you don’t present me with the facts don’t get mad I don’t know the facts.