So I tried OLD again and I’ve been getting overwhelmed by talking to more than one person at a time. I usually pick one person that I like and I’m not sure if that’s the issue. I still talk to a couple others but then if I don’t answer them within a couple hours, I’ve gotten blocked before. And then if I do see that one person I put all my attention into they end up ghosting me or having underlying manipulative behavior. I try to keep my options open to other people but then I tend to forget things about the other people. Almost like you need to make an excel spreadsheet. It just gets tiring after a while.
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You can use OLD whichever way you like. The truth is most men on OLD are either catfishes, have some deal-breakers preventing them from finding a gf irl, are actually taken but didn't disclose that to you, or are scammers so don't expect too much from OLD. Yes it's exhausting especially given how so many profiles have red flags and the ones that don't rarely message me first or reply.
Have a look at this podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/burn-the-haystack-with-dr-jennie-young/id1726065949?i=1000651408310
It's about a method to find someone that doesn't suck in OLD. might be useful.
You can use OLD whichever way you like. The truth is most men on OLD are either catfishes, have some deal-breakers preventing them from finding a gf irl, are actually taken but didn't disclose that to you, or are scammers sp don't expect too much from OLD. Yes it's exhausting especially given how so many profiles have red flags and the ones that don't rarely message me first or reply.