Is this a kind of scrote that I should be aware of?
I'm not saying he should be chatty with me in front of his wife. But here is the thing: I came across a man who initiated small talk with me about something in the parking lot and we both were going into the same building together. I forgot what he said - it wasn't anything earth-shattering, but anyway. But then I realize later he has a wife. I'm like...he talked with me almost as if he *wanted* to talk to me, but his wife wasn't with him at the time.
I don't really like men like this - don't make me think that you want to have a conversation with me, only to have me realize later that it was for nothing.
You sound young but yes men do this. Men are dogs. They purposely look for ego boosts outside of their marriage. For a number of reasons. It could be because they are bored in their marriage. It could be because they need a ego boost they aren't getting in their marriage. It could be they are just selfish POS who want on cheat. Men are dogs. Men don't think like women.. the sooner you accept this the better your life will be.
I hate this habit. Unfortunately, in my pickme past, I had male friends and acquaintances who would pull this shit with me. Their two-faced behavior was disrespectful to me and their wives and made me very uncomfortable. Fortunately, I am no longer in contact with any of them.
Men absolutely know what they are doing. If I were you, I would avoid these types of men.
Avoid friends' husbands like a plague.
It means they're a cake eater who doesn't respect you or their wife. They’re trash.
Oh I cannot STAND this. Disingenuous to the max and obviously uncomfortable being attracted to women who are not their wives and so petrified of letting this on they act cold and distant when she is around.
When wife is not around it doesn't matter. I really despise this.