THIS IS A REMINDER 🙃
Every time you put yourself on a dating app, you're putting on a clown suit while these men view you as desperate and pathetic enough to get on these apps.
I remember when I used to use Okcupid and men would ask me why someone like myself was even on this app. I didn't know what to respond with at the time, but now I understand what they meant.
Bingo.
Commodifying yourself to be judged by men swiping while on the toilet is OLD.
Men treat OLD as a free prostitution service, so there is NO benefit to women anymore. Back in the day people were more genuine with their intentions, but now it's just a free meat market for the lowest common denominator. Ick.
They usually swipe right on everyone, so yeah, there's nothing special coming from these apps. I've heard of a lot about hobosexuals who use these apps, so ladies watch out.
It really does take away that initial rush of seeing a girl and slowly earning her attention/affection. Once a man knows you approve of him on some level via matching, there's instinctively a lot less for him to do. In a perfect world men wouldnt be such predictable robots running on the same program but here we are. Every single thing they get must be earned or they will trash it and you will feel dumb.
Yeah. Most men assume women who use OLD are losers who fail to attract men irl. Adding to this, OLD attracts a lot of men with ulterior purposes given its anonymous nature.
Also, men scroll apps while pooping. Never forget this. Don't be the woman he finds while pooping.
Plus there are no atrractive men on dating apps