I wouldn't marry a man who isn't a virgin

Its not my standard but I support the fuck out of this because it's very hard for men to achieve, it will result in you rejecting many many men, and those men will get butt-hurt about it. 💯

I think that's fine. The whole point of standards is that they are specific to you. If you want a man who is a virgin, then that's your choice. The only thing I would say is maybe ask about it in a round-about way. If you say something like "I want a man who is a virgin. Are you a virgin?", he's going to say yes whether he is or not. Maybe just ask about previous relationships and see if you can gauge whether he has sexual experience or not. Also a man who pushes for sex is obviously not saving himself for marriage and is therefore incompatible with you.

Not going to standard shame but I will say that just because someone isn’t a virgin doesn’t mean they’re “ran through”. Could’ve been in one long term relationship that ended for other reasons. Having a high number of sexual partners is one thing but not being a virgin is another.

Would you be willing to date religious men or men from conservative cultures? They have their litany of issues, but you are much more likely to find men who are virgins in those groups.

I'm a virgin so it's only fair that I also want a virgin.

I want my partner to have experience = good sex, virgins are awkward at first and its a learning curve

i'm not talking about community dick but like a couple partners sure

I wouldn't want to be with a man who isn't a virgin either but that's extremely rare, most of them have 10 body counts.

My boyfriend only had one sexual encounter before he met me and that has been for the best!

Fair point. I can stand by that since I see your logic lol

I had the same standard for my first boyfriend and I fully support this 💖