Backstory, My bestie got cheated on by her boyfriend and this is his logic behind his actions. He's been on Reddit creating posts for advice. I'm actually surprised redditors are flaming him and holding him accountable. (His post here for more details) He seemed to left out that one of the girls he was cheating with was barely out of middle school. Any advice on what my friend should do? I really hope she doesn't give him and give him another chance.
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If this story is true, it's further proof we can't love a man into decency. If he's a piece of shit, he will hurt in you the worst ways possible no matter how "perfect" of a partner you are to him. Men are truly rotten.
IMO all you can really do is tell your friend that you feel she deserves better than a man who cheats and that if she needs any help leaving this boyfriend or a shoulder to cry on, you'll be there.
You friend needs to block, delete and never look back. She may want to pull back on how much she gives to her boyfriends. Sounds like she's doing major wife stuff for a guy she's known for 4 months. That sets her up to be used by guys
LOL this man never loved her though.
If you read his post, he goes on a small rant about how your friend is his "absolute dream girl" and to justify this statement, he goes on and on about everything he likes about her which are all things SHE does for HIM:
And then he proceeds to explain that he has no idea what love is because he hasn't been loved before or loved someone himself. So basically what we are looking at is a boy that feels oh so special because a girl is willing to let him use her as his mommy-wife appliance.
Notice how when she goes on her trip, the guy seems to IMMEDIATELY jump to the opportunity of getting his needs met from somebody else, and then he pretends to feel like a POS for it (I'm guessing to try to seem redeemable in the eyes of the internet), but still he continues all the way until he gets caught and that's when he realizes that he has lost his perfect wife-appliance by trying to get another, temporary one. And then, of course, his life is destroyed because perfect mommies McBangMaids are veeerrryyy hard to come by and he's just cut himself off from all her free labour.
It was never about her, it was all about him, from the beginning.
Loved the update he gave: she made him write "cheater" on his forehead with a sharpie and post it on all of his accounts, then she blocked him on everything. Based. 😂
Because men are so self centered that they only understand consequences through pain (someone leaving them)
I would be mortified to have my relationship end up on a subreddit post.
I feel like he's not even really telling the truth. He's justifying himself, and he posted cause he wanted validation for it. That backfired lol. He can't admit he wanted to cheat and he's only sorry because he got caught. And now his room doesn't get cleaned 😢 And he has to cook for himself 😢 Poor baby. None of the qualities he mentioned about her say anything about her personality. Nothing feels like he likes her for HER. It made him see how much he wanted maid, but is it really about her specifically?
Anyone that can cheat doesn't respect the relationship and their partner, point blank period. I read the post and he stated she blocked him. Good for her. Incredibly sad for her but at least she found it now and not years down the line. A relationship without respect is meaningless and vapid. She's better off without him.